My one dating success

[hotpotato]

I'm very happy that I found sokme measure of success even though its small. I no longer get hit on by 70 year old men. Some guys are a little older than me, but not old enough to be grandpa. Now I have a better mix as far as age. A lot more guys that try to holla are in their 20s and 30s.

 

I read somewhere that when a lot of older men hit on a woman, she may be attractive, but there is something unattractive about her.

[alphamale]

what did you change hotpotatoe?

[hotpotato]

what did you change hotpotatoe?

 

My body. I made a lot of changes in the past few years. My body was very androgynous, so much that I was sometimes mistaken for a child.

[HiCrunchy]

My body. I made a lot of changes in the past few years. My body was very androgynous, so much that I was sometimes mistaken for a child.

 

Hey hot potato can u be more detailed in what u changed to become more womanly and feminine?

 

I'm a woman but look really young and want to become more feminine.

 

I'm short and around 100 pounds so I get the whole being thought of as a child thing, it happens to me all the time.

[hotpotato]

That will do it. This is why I always tell newly single people to hit the gym. Basically, everyone needs to do it if they are having a hard time dating. Looks>everything else these days.

 

I was hitting the gym for 15 years which only helped minimally as far as looking older & being more eye catching.

[hotpotato]

Hey hot potato can u be more detailed in what u changed to become more womanly and feminine?

 

I'm a woman but look really young and want to become more feminine.

 

I'm short and around 100 pounds so I get the whole being thought of as a child thing, it happens to me all the time.

 

I got a boob job, ab Lipo, and spent years concentrating on my glutes at the gym. I had a very unusual shape for an adult.

 

Also, I can go to the casino or liquor store and not get carded anymore.

 

The downside is seeing the difference in how I'm treated. I read that some obese people go through this after losing a lot of weight.

 

I can't get children's tickets anymore lol.

[alphamale]

just go to mcdonalds and get a happy meal, you'll feel better hotpotato

[chillii]

Hey hot potato can u be more detailed in what u changed to become more womanly and feminine?

 

I'm a woman but look really young and want to become more feminine.

 

I'm short and around 100 pounds so I get the whole being thought of as a child thing, it happens to me all the time.

 

 

Yeah l dunno really ,wouldn't worry too much,it'll be a beautiful thing about you to the guy that's into you though.

My gf is extremely small and petite but her shape is still very much female.

ps , can't you put age things on those date sites, when l was on one it had an auto decline for anyone that wasn't in my range, same with everything else, build hair even religion, anything you wanted to block.Every now and then the odd granny or something else got through it, dunno how, but it got most of them.

Edited March 4, 2019 by chillii

[hotpotato]

Yeah l dunno really ,wouldn't worry too much,it'll be a beautiful thing about you to the guy that's into you though.

My gf is extremely small and petite but her shape is still very much female.

ps , can't you put age things on those date sites, when l was on one it had an auto decline for anyone that wasn't in my range, same with everything else, build hair even religion, anything you wanted to block.Every now and then the odd granny or something else got through it, dunno how, but it got most of them.

 

I can agree that most women who are petite still have a feminine form. Honestly, I've seen some spinners with amazing figures.

I wasn't petite,I just had a weird shape. I never found a man who nuts about my shape. Occasionally, I would meet a guy who was into fit chics, but most of them don't have to have a woman who works out. I had some weird issues with my body that made it look like I hadn't gone through puberty.