Please give me some advice

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I'm 20 years old and a junior in college. I've been married for a little over a year now and my wife just turned 19. No kids. It seems to me like the first day we got married was when we started drifting our seperate ways. I work very hard at school (Full Time Student) and I work 40 hours a week at a county jail. My wife does not go to college, in fact she barely passed high school and she hasn't worked a full time week since we've been married. I feel like we no longer operate on the same level because I'm continually moving up in life to better myself and she doesn't care that she doesn't make any money and that she hates her job. She's the type of person that complains about everything but never does anything to correct it. Her parents have been a constact source of agony for me, even going so far as convincing my wife that I was taking steroids. Actually it was just protein. We split up for a week over that because she constantly accused me of using them, which I would never in my life do. She never listens to what I have to say and really doesn't undestand when I'm talking. When I have entertained the idea of going our seperate ways, it always has to be me to tell her to leave. This is the hardest part. I don't have it in my heart to tell her to just get out even though we never get along and my love for her has faded past the point of ever getting it back. Our sex life is non existant and she throws a fit because I only get 5 hours a sleep a night and there are nights I hit the pillow and I'm out. I spent my only day of the week cleaning the house alone, because she was too tired. I'm so depressed about this situation and I wish I never got married in the first place. Everyone that I've talked to has told me that she needs to grow up but do I wait for something that may never happen? I wish I had someone that I could talk to on an intellectual level. What should I do?