Devon93 Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 (edited) I can understand that it would be a waste of a woman's time to go out with a woman I am not interested in but I heard some say that I'm also wasting my time. Why is that the case that I would be wasting my time? Even if I would be wasting my time is that really the most important reason why I should not date a woman I'm not into? Wasting her time would be the most important reason not to do it which is the only reason that matters. To me it is not enough to know the right answer but also the right reasons behind the right answer. Also do you think it is wrong and misleading on my part to buy gifts for women I don't like? Edited March 17, 2019 by Devon93 Link to post Share on other sites
Cersei Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 Why would you waste your own time, let alone hers? And yes, it's leading her on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Devon93 Posted March 17, 2019 Author Share Posted March 17, 2019 I don't care if I waste my own time. That's why. But that's not a good reason not to go out with her. How is buying gifts leading her on if I'm willing to waste my own hard earned money? Link to post Share on other sites
Cersei Posted March 17, 2019 Share Posted March 17, 2019 It's misleading because she views the gifts as a nice gesture by someone who cares about her and wants to be with her. Go ahead and waste your time, your money and her time. Go right ahead, but you asked the question. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Devon93 Posted March 17, 2019 Author Share Posted March 17, 2019 I think you are missing my point in my OP. I said the only reason I would not go out with a woman I don't like is because it would be a waste of her time. My time is not an issue here. It is totally irrelevant to the reason. Link to post Share on other sites
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