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He broke up with me now what?


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He broke up with me…now what?

Im 29 and he is 29. My boyfriend of almost 2 months broke up with me yesterday and he said that he felt like we didn’t have a mental connection. He said we can stay friends and I can call him but if not then that’s fine. I’m in a lot of pain right now I cried last night and this morning. I asked him so what’s really going on last night but he didn’t respond in text. I will be surprised if he calls me ever again. I’m so confused. What does he mean he doesn’t have a mental connection? He feels like he is not mentally attracted to me.. How do I get through this pain??? I’m told to wait until he contacts me. I only sent him one text after we broke up and he hasn’t replied. Is there a chance we will get back together. He didn’t even give it a chance

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Sorry you have to go through this.

It sucks but it's better now than after too much time was invested in him.

 

By mental connection he likely means you are not on the same page as far as conversations go.

 

Is one of you more educated than the other? Is one more interested in discussing current affairs?

 

If you can't connect in conversation a relationship can go stale in a hurry.

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