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Of course if you have a spare 25 years, then anything is possible.

 

Prince Andrew and Fergie have reunited...

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I’ve noticed on this board and many other boards one trend that can’t be denied.

Ex’s nearly always contact again after 3 months or 6 months.

 

My ex ex gf came back at the 3 month mark and the 6 month mark...

 

What are everyone’s opinions on this break up phenomena?

 

well theres coming back and getting back together, one thing i found that if you think your ex is a narcissist or has bpd , then chances are that you are the fuel to there toxic behavoir. if they hang around and still reject you. it puts them in the position of " the master and the slave" . some people have real morals and could never treat someone they love badly. others use this position of power as the antidote to their guilt. one way to break this is no contact. but it needs to be on a deeper level. you can not talk to someone and they will know what you are doing and laugh about it. or you can dig deep into your emotions and find that person in your soul, and kill that love and make them dead to you. if you dumped someone and they still loved you. from the dumpers point of view they see pity. they see options. but they do or will feel guilt. and keeping you on a hook hurts you and gives them security.

 

now you know what to do , break the bond. the tumor that is on your heart/soul and let them feel the pain.

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