GTR King Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 Been with my Girlfriend 5 months (6 Months 29 April) Everything is going great & we go on holiday 29th April-7th may morocco.. The only issue is she wants me to shave my beard off for the holiday & keeps bugging me about it & says if I shave it off once I will stop bugging you as want to see you clean shaven as some of your FB/match pictures you were like that.. My beard is well trimmed/kept tidy not that long. So should I shave my beard off to keep her happy? Or keep it & do what i want? Do girls actually like beards on men? or clean shaven ones Link to post Share on other sites
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 Hair grows back. Shave it for her just this once. I like both bearded and non-bearded men. Really depends on the man. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 I have no idea how long your beard is, but when my boyfriend shaves his beard it grows back within a week. Do you really want to make such a little thing an issue in your relationship? Normally, I would say don’t change who you are for someone else - but this is such a small thing, humour her. When we first started dating, my guy asked me if I liked him clean shaven or with a beard. I love a little stubble, so that is what he does... It’s not a big thing. Try something new... you may be pleased with her response! Link to post Share on other sites
Author GTR King Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 So I should shave it off this once & see her response... So that should make her happy?? My beard is bigger than stubble but still short Link to post Share on other sites
Cersei Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 I don't really like beards much myself. But my boyfriend has one kept neatly trimmed. I too would like to see it gone but he thinks he looks more manly with it. Lol There are bigger fish to fry. In the grand scheme is it that big of a deal? I say do whatever you like but if you get rid of it pretty sure she will be very, very happy if you catch my drift. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 She just wants to see you clean shaven... it’s not like she wants you to buy a sports car, or lose 50 pounds... Isn’t this what people in relationships do? My guy loves it when I wear my glasses, so I do that. He hates it when I wear a certain outfit, so I got rid of them. He loves a specific meal that I cook, so I make that meal for him. If it doesn’t cost you anything, and it doesn’t because hair grows back, then do it for her. She’s just curious, she wants to see you clean shaven. I would do it - but, if keeping your beard is more important to you than making your girlfriend happy... go right ahead. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author GTR King Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 Thanks guys for the advice... Will probably do it for the holiday then that will keep her happy ? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
loversquarrel Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 It really depends on the woman. My wife likes both but prefers me clean shaven as it feels much better for intimate reasons. Tell her you really don't want to then surprise her, she'll be putty in your hands. Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 Tell her you'll shave... if she shaves!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author GTR King Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 Tell her you'll shave... if she shaves!! She has already said that to me lol Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 If the issue is a standalone one that doesn't involve anything more than what you've written, I agree with the previous advice. If you have a particular issue about NOT shaving or if she has a pattern of doing things you see as trying to control you then my response might be a little different. Link to post Share on other sites
Happy Lemming Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 She has already said that to me lol Good Deal!! Now where is that razor! Link to post Share on other sites
Author GTR King Posted April 8, 2019 Author Share Posted April 8, 2019 (edited) in my bathroom lol No other issues she just wants to see me clean shaven at least once Edited April 8, 2019 by GTR King Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 8, 2019 Share Posted April 8, 2019 Hate beards, all beards. I like to date a man, not a bear. That said, it's your body and if you care more about your beard than her, then don't shave it. I would think you'd want your gf to be as attracted to you as possible though, and this is a simple enough request. Link to post Share on other sites
bathtub-row Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 I like the 5 o’clock shadow look, personally. Your gf may not like your beard at all. It’s nice you’re shaving it. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 the vast majority of females totally dislike any facial hair on their man Link to post Share on other sites
greymatter Posted April 9, 2019 Share Posted April 9, 2019 the vast majority of females totally dislike any facial hair on their man For me, I like beards so hair on the face is great. Hair on the body is a different story (I don't like hairy guys, and was married to one so am sure that I don't). Link to post Share on other sites
Author GTR King Posted April 9, 2019 Author Share Posted April 9, 2019 She has been fine with my beard.. Just wants it off for the holiday Link to post Share on other sites
mightybop Posted April 14, 2019 Share Posted April 14, 2019 She has been fine with my beard.. Just wants it off for the holiday You'll shave if she gets a Brazilian Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted April 14, 2019 Share Posted April 14, 2019 If she wants it off for the holiday, she wants it off, period. That's just her way of persuading you. But she might change her mind once it's off. You never know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author GTR King Posted April 14, 2019 Author Share Posted April 14, 2019 Thanks guys will shave it off once see what she says Link to post Share on other sites
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