Guest005 Posted September 22, 2005 Share Posted September 22, 2005 My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for nearly a year. Basically, before we got together she was seeing a married man off and on (basically his mistress). When we got together he was still in the picture (unknown to me), although they didnt see each other much if at all, there was still rampant emails between the two, some quite deep and meaningful. Anyway, all this came to a head some months down the track when she briefly told me about him. She said it was all over and she hadnt spoken to him for quite some time (a lie). I told her that this was unacceptable and I didnt want any contact between the two of them. She agreed and stopped. Some weeks after this, it started again, with him contacting her. She played along, with brief conversations. I bought this up with her again knowing full well that they had spoken etc and she again denied it. Basically, I am feeling like I cannot trust her at all now, she tells me she loves me everyday and wants to be with me forever, but her insistent lying is really getting to me. I dont know why she cant just come out and tell me he still tries to contact her?! Link to post Share on other sites
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