londonjames1979 Posted September 22, 2005 Share Posted September 22, 2005 Ok. I was with my girlfriend for almost 5 years. I was secretly saving up for a ring and our future and she went to calgary. She stayed with my best friend and I trusted them. She came back home and told me she cheated on me with him. He doesnt want a relationship and she told me he said not to tell me that they did that. I told her to leave and she moved to calgary and is living with an aunt. She now messaged me about 3 weeks later saying she loves me and doesnt want to be with anyone else. She said she doesnt look at other guys and she is very sorry she did that to me. She said she swears on her dead fathers and brothers grave she will never cheat on me again. She talked about coming back to me and I said she would have to build trust if she came back. What do you all think I should do. My head tells me let her back and see if she can prove herself. Link to post Share on other sites
quankanne Posted September 22, 2005 Share Posted September 22, 2005 the big question is, are you willing to put your heart through a grinder regardless of the outcome? Also, are the both of you willing to work on the relationship to get past the affair? I think answers to these will give you a good indication of what you should do. best of luck to you ... Link to post Share on other sites
Author londonjames1979 Posted September 22, 2005 Author Share Posted September 22, 2005 Well she said she is willing to do whatever it takes. I said Im not going to move to calgary to get my heart stomped on. SHe said that she would come here and make it work. Only time will tell. Im thinking about it for a couple of weeks Link to post Share on other sites
pippen_2k Posted September 22, 2005 Share Posted September 22, 2005 Yeah give it a couple of weeks! You invested alot of time into this girl so your probably gonna give it another shot.. but dont rush it! The trust has been broken now, thats the underlying factor.. Your gonna have to be able to look past that now if it is to work. Good Luck Link to post Share on other sites
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