TooBad Posted July 15, 2019 Share Posted July 15, 2019 if i was more sexual and flirty with our conversations would that have avoided what happened? No. If both of you were other people it might have avoided what happened though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author fred123 Posted July 16, 2019 Author Share Posted July 16, 2019 No. If both of you were other people it might have avoided what happened though. what do you mean? Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted July 16, 2019 Share Posted July 16, 2019 if i was more sexual and flirty with our conversations would that have avoided what happened? I doubt things would have been any different. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted July 16, 2019 Share Posted July 16, 2019 Is this really that hard to unpack? It is IMPOSSIBLE to gauge true chemistry never mind physical chemistry with a virtual pen pal. You were in love with the idea of her, not her. Get that straight. As for her, she seems like a total flake. Too many on here warned you how this would unfold and apart from the fact that she actually showed up, it went accordingly to how everyone else thought it would except for you. Do you know how many men I've met on OLD who I've had amazing banter with over the telephone thinking that we will most certainly hit if off in person too only for it to NOT take once we were face to face? Too many. You want to know why? Because there is an exchange of energy that can only take place in person, when you're face to face with each other. You can't bypass that step. The fact that your whole relationship was just one long text message and nothing more pretty much set you up for failure. Let this be a lesson to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
chillii Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 (edited) i didnt just imply sex. thats not what i meant. i meant romantic intentions on both parts Speaking of assuming. Yeah that's what l thought you meant too. But nope l don't think being more this or that would've made any difference. Sounds like something happened her end before she even got there and you met anyway. Sorry it didn't work out , she sounds like a bit of a moron tbh the way she basically lead you on and kept it all going but then flips and basically denies it all. Edited July 17, 2019 by chillii Link to post Share on other sites
TooBad Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 what do you mean? I mean nothing in this whole thread was giving me the impression something good would come out of it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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