Second Chance?

[TSIOFTIS]

First I am a woman & so is preraph.

 

Second, you being with 5 other women since you & A broke up may actually work against you. A may see that as you moving on too quickly or as a symptom of you being able to commit.

 

When somebody goes through all the trouble to block you "everywhere" that is generally a good indication that they are well & truly you done.

 

I will give you one suggestion. It's a tried & true cliché but you can try it as a "Hail Mary". Send her flowers through a florist with an apology & a request that you two try again. It's probably a waste of money but it's also most likely an avenue that you have not been blocked from. Include your phone #. She most likely discarded it. If you don't get a positive response from the flowers yet chose to persist, there is a real possibility she will file harassment charges against you.

 

Hahaha you are making things so DAMN DRAMATIC ..

BUT I loved the idea with the flowers although it's not my type and I'm probably won't gonna do it ...

 

Look at least I want a chance to TALK to her ..To EXPLAIN to her thst I'm not the fckd up person B told her I was ..And hey maybe we won't never be back together but at least she won't hate me ..Because to hate you the person you love ?It's the worst thing ..The worst ...

 

Also for the other thing you mentioned ..Neither she or me don't know what each other doing with their lives that past year ..Because as I told we live away from each other ...

So please don't make all things so dramatic ..I just want AT LEAST clear my name to the girl I love

[TSIOFTIS]

Her 'friend' must have been jealous of you two hence what she did. You can try to contact her again if you wish, but if the break up was a really bad one, don't expect results. And it would be harder to revive with her friend in the picture. Good luck.

 

That's what I'm thinking too ..To try again one last time ..I hope it works ..Thank you for your reply and good luck to you too

[preraph]

If you're going to contact her, hope you can do it via phone call. Good luck.

[TSIOFTIS]

That's good. It shows you can move on.

 

Now, has she told you not to contact her anymore? Just think back to what she's said. Because if she's told you to leave her alone in so many words, then the ball is in her court to reach out if she ever has second thoughts.

 

Thanks Preraph !! I just saw that reply btw ..Yeah you are right but it's a year since she never contacted me so I'm thinking what you said ..Phone call ..Thank you ..And good luck to you too you've been helpful to understand and say exactly what I'm thinking

[mark clemson]

All I look is for some advice in what I should do so I can have a second chance with her ...And Hey !Maybe someone down the road can actually help but you don't cause it's not what I'm asking and that's ok ..

 

I hope that help you understand now

 

 

OP, I think the reason you're not getting the advice you are looking for is that basically this looks genuinely like a lost cause and, I think for most, there is no advice we can give for you to accomplish this. That is why you're getting all the advice to let it go instead.

 

That said, there's a very very slim, but real, chance the phone call thing will work. While I wouldn't personally be putting any money on it, I wish you good luck.

[TSIOFTIS]

OP, I think the reason you're not getting the advice you are looking for is that basically this looks genuinely like a lost cause and, I think for most, there is no advice we can give for you to accomplish this. That is why you're getting all the advice to let it go instead.

 

That said, there's a very very slim, but real, chance the phone call thing will work. While I wouldn't personally be putting any money on it, I wish you good luck.

 

Yeah it makes sense what you are saying ..But you see I know what I'm trying to do is a ling shot ..Thank you though and good luck to you too