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OP has not returned in 3 days. She's busy having fun with her guy. He probably contacted her the same day she posted this. If he had not contacted her she'd be on here feeding this thread.

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OP has not returned in 3 days. She's busy having fun with her guy. He probably contacted her the same day she posted this. If he had not contacted her she'd be on here feeding this thread.

 

Yep. I suspect that a lot of OPs post here at the peak of their anxiety and often prematurely.

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I still think his interest in her is low. Doesn’t contact her on vacation (apart from at the start) nor when he’s home? Lukewarm at best.

 

I hope I’m wrong.

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For a bit of perspective, if I was dating a girl for 5 weeks, we'd only slept together twice, and weren't exclusive, I would getting my freak on while I am on vacation, or at least I'd leave the possibility open. I probably wouldn't be focused on messaging OP, and if she reached out I'd probably respond exactly how he did. That doesn't mean I'm not interested in her. That means that the relationship is still in it's beginning stages and I'm on vacation.

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For a bit of perspective, if I was dating a girl for 5 weeks, we'd only slept together twice, and weren't exclusive, I would getting my freak on while I am on vacation, or at least I'd leave the possibility open. I probably wouldn't be focused on messaging OP, and if she reached out I'd probably respond exactly how he did. That doesn't mean I'm not interested in her. That means that the relationship is still in it's beginning stages and I'm on vacation.

 

good analysis CT

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Curiousroxy86
For a bit of perspective, if I was dating a girl for 5 weeks, we'd only slept together twice, and weren't exclusive, I would getting my freak on while I am on vacation, or at least I'd leave the possibility open. I probably wouldn't be focused on messaging OP, and if she reached out I'd probably respond exactly how he did. That doesn't mean I'm not interested in her. That means that the relationship is still in it's beginning stages and I'm on vacation.

 

^^^ again why it doesnt make a lick of sense to focus on one guy in dating all because you like him when he hasn't tried to make himself an official boyfriend or show he would be a good one to begin with. why it doesnt make a lick of sense to expect a guy to be exclusive with you just because you gave him some or expect exclusivity in general if he hasnt expressed that desire.

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