Brian R Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 Hello, so it’s Brian, and if you know me from before you might be wondering why i’m Back here. School is ending soon (just under a month left) and as you know I’m going to leave to another one. I started to stop thinking about the girl but then right as I was almost starting to lose interest I found her (for the last 2 weeks) doing stuff to try and grab my attention in a way. An example is that she has (at least 3 times) started dancing and singing in front of me and I obviously don’t give her the attention the first time, the second time Yet again, and she does it yet again. I pretend to focus on my work instead to show that I don’t really have interest. She doesn’t know that i’m Leaving the school and talks to me. She isn’t shy at all as i’ve mentioned. last period today and we were getting ready to leave and she went up to me and said hi. When I looked I was about say hi back but she was just looking at the side while her body was facing me. Her friends were behind the door waiting but i’m pretty sure that she isn’t gonna talk to her friends through the door haha. I’m not gonna lie I find myself wanting to ask her out and all of that but she keeps reminding me as I see her a lot. She randomly stares sometimes. Anyways, I don’t want to over-analyze anything but what would you do in this situation? Should I just tell her right now that I have no interest anymore or just wait until school ends? I also don’t know whether she’s trying to make me look like a joke (dancing or singing in front of me) and etc. Either way it’s becoming annoying. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 I mean, you're the one who has a problem keeping your crap together around this girl. She is just going about her business. You're going to be leaving anyway, so what's the point of trying to get something started? Long distance romances don't work, so... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted May 27, 2019 Share Posted May 27, 2019 Wait until school ends. Less awkward that way. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brian R Posted May 28, 2019 Author Share Posted May 28, 2019 Wait until school ends. Less awkward that way. That’d be a better idea, the fact that i’m Moving to another school just makes me wonder if I should really tell her at all you know what I mean? Even if I’m leaving should I just tell her when school ends or forget about this altogether? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brian R Posted May 28, 2019 Author Share Posted May 28, 2019 I mean, you're the one who has a problem keeping your crap together around this girl. She is just going about her business. You're going to be leaving anyway, so what's the point of trying to get something started? Long distance romances don't work, so... I mean I guess so. Really i’m just doing my own stuff and she’s trying to get attention at times. You’re right though. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted May 29, 2019 Share Posted May 29, 2019 Why not tell her you are leaving and then ask if she wants to hang out. You might get some good-bye giggidy. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted May 31, 2019 Share Posted May 31, 2019 what would you do in this situation? . Stop giving her an audience. You're stopping what you're doing and focusing on her when that's the last thing you need to be doing. Decide what you want: do you want to be bothered with her or not? Figure that out and follow accordingly. If you do, then slip your neck into the yoke and pull. If not, then keep your earbuds in your ears and your attention diverted whenever she is in the vicinity until you leave. When she does her slow snake-slide up to you to get your attention, before she gets there, you get up, turn around and walk out of the room. You make her make a fool of herself in public if she's really trying to get your attention. When she stops and asks where you're going, you tell her "out" and that's it. You keep walking. She is not owed an answer--only faithful girlfriends get that perk. And don't tell her you're leaving. It won't turn out the way the Hollywood cinematic movie trailer your fantasy mind is building will. Let her spend eternity wondering. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted May 31, 2019 Share Posted May 31, 2019 That’d be a better idea, the fact that i’m Moving to another school just makes me wonder if I should really tell her at all you know what I mean? Even if I’m leaving should I just tell her when school ends or forget about this altogether? At this point in time, I really don't see what you'd have to lose by asking her out for a simple cup of coffee. Go for it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brian R Posted June 15, 2019 Author Share Posted June 15, 2019 Stop giving her an audience. You're stopping what you're doing and focusing on her when that's the last thing you need to be doing. Decide what you want: do you want to be bothered with her or not? Figure that out and follow accordingly. If you do, then slip your neck into the yoke and pull. If not, then keep your earbuds in your ears and your attention diverted whenever she is in the vicinity until you leave. When she does her slow snake-slide up to you to get your attention, before she gets there, you get up, turn around and walk out of the room. You make her make a fool of herself in public if she's really trying to get your attention. When she stops and asks where you're going, you tell her "out" and that's it. You keep walking. She is not owed an answer--only faithful girlfriends get that perk. And don't tell her you're leaving. It won't turn out the way the Hollywood cinematic movie trailer your fantasy mind is building will. Let her spend eternity wondering. I can easily tell that she likes me and wants to talk with me but she is starting to give attention to some other boys. Which is good. I’ve got one day left so I say just get over it. And this point it’s not worth it lol Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted June 21, 2019 Share Posted June 21, 2019 You had almost a month to get with her.....what have you been doing all this time? Didn't even ask her to hang out? Link to post Share on other sites
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