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What’s up with me getting matches with fat girls?


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Not true. Nobody has to date fat girls. In fact by doing so it is enabling their unhealthy lifestyle by not incentifying obese women to ear well and visit a gym regularly.

 

Women don’t exist to look aesthetically pleasing to you

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Truth is a thin girl can put on a whole lot of weight and a fat girl can lose it.

Weight is not a constant so best not to get too hung up on it.

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Women don’t exist to look aesthetically pleasing to you

 

I'll bet you and I have never dated.

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Marilyn Monroe wore a size 12

 

Just sayin.

 

People have gotten fatter and so is clothing size. She is no way in hell a side 12 in 2019. MM is not fat. Size 12 today is really fat.

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Hey!

 

The last girl I blew off was also fat. She didn’t take any iniative and now I recently got a match with another girl who is like average/fatish

 

I’m just not attracted to those kind of bodies. I like more average body type girls or fit girls. Like everytime I see a fat girl I think they are unhealty and that they eat like 10 burgers a day. Also what happends under sex? My penis would get smashed. See my point?

 

It seems like I’m hating on fat girls but trust me... I try to appreciate them because they might have had another dating experience compared to fit and average body girls.

 

Can someone help me seeing it the positive way instead of negative?

 

Adjust your expectations so you're not always disappointed.

 

What's up with getting messages from anyone who isn't one's preference? That's what so great about the swipe left feature--you don't have to be bothered with whom you don't want to be bothered.

 

Folks are going to shoot their shot and just because they carry weight doesn't mean they don't deserve to be on the list of people matched to you--just swipe left and keep it moving.

 

I'd say get off the dating app and take ballet, work out at the palates class or the spin class or the hot yoga studio if you want to find fitter women.

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People have gotten fatter and so is clothing size. She is no way in hell a side 12 in 2019. MM is not fat. Size 12 today is really fat.

 

that depends upon how tall one is.

 

A size 12 on a woman under 5'3 might be considered "fat", but on a woman 5'9, she will look completely different.

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I was talking about MM height, in size 12 by today's standards, is fat. MM was no way as big as that.

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I was talking about MM height, in size 12 by today's standards, is fat. MM was no way as big as that.

 

She was 5'5 and a size 6 in today's measurements, but today, even as small is she is, she'd be in the plastic surgeon's office getting a 360 lipo, tummy tuck, BBL, her thigh gap lipo'd out and 375cc saline inplants, like most of the "fit" looking chicks on IG. (I follow too many plastic surgeons on IG)

 

Women's clothing sizes have been notoriously unreliable since the 50's.

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Not true. Nobody has to date fat girls. In fact by doing so it is enabling their unhealthy lifestyle by not incentifying obese women to ear well and visit a gym regularly.

I would prefer that the heavier women I come across during the day be happy and well laid, vs crabby or man hungry. If they want to live the life of a fat person in America, where you're often treated with contempt and disrespect, that's their right. But dealing with a frustrated woman when you're trying to get some normal task in your day done is not the life I want to live.

 

I doubt no sex will be an incentive for them to lose weight anyway. A lot of overweight women are overweight because they've got some unresolved trauma going on and are not fully comfortable with a lot of sexual attention.

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70% of the adult US population, male and female, are overweight or obese. I’m sure women are often matched with fat guys too.

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"Average" American woman now close to 170#...That's a lot of women, and a lot of women larger than that as well...I don't know what its like in Norway, but with seemingly ALL guys wanting what is now a relatively small percentage(the size 2/4's), will certainly leave a lot of guys on the outside looking in, unless they want to expand their net....

 

TFY

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...but with seemingly ALL guys wanting what is now a relatively small percentage(the size 2/4's), will certainly leave a lot of guys on the outside looking in, unless they want to expand their net....

 

guys with the fat wallets will attract the skinny ones

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"Average" American woman now close to 170#...That's a lot of women, and a lot of women larger than that as well...I don't know what its like in Norway, but with seemingly ALL guys wanting what is now a relatively small percentage(the size 2/4's), will certainly leave a lot of guys on the outside looking in, unless they want to expand their net....

 

TFY

 

I am asking this question as a size 2 woman: Did you mean even seriously overweight or obese men want only a slim woman? :confused:

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In Norway, the percentage of overweight and obese men is higher than that of women.

 

I know we are having fun here trashing women while leaving men out of the equation. So carry on. How dare those women match with you!

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I am asking this question as a size 2 woman: Did you mean even seriously overweight or obese men want only a slim woman? :confused:

 

pretty much, yes. slim women are almost universally wanted by men of all sizes. I doubt that Prince Harry would have chosen Meghan Markle if she was a "larger" woman

 

I used to date a woman who was a size 2. she attracted attention from both men and women

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pretty much, yes. slim women are almost universally wanted by men of all sizes. I doubt that Prince Harry would have chosen Meghan Markle if she was a "larger" woman

 

I used to date a woman who was a size 2. she attracted attention from both men and women

 

But Harry is not fat :p I wonder how slim the OP is.

 

I think Meghan would look nicer if she gained a few lbs.

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I think Meghan would look nicer if she gained a few lbs.

 

maybe, but like 10lbs at most

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I am a 12 and some guys consider me fat. I also knew a gal who was a size 00 and she didn't get much action either. So who knows?

 

As for your situation, either tighten up your preferences or settle.

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