Shooktodeath Posted June 13, 2019 Share Posted June 13, 2019 This guy I was dating ran into some hard luck and lost his place. I live with 2 older guys that are brothers. They hired me as a live-in house manager. They know this guy for about a year through me and I asked if he could stay temporarily until he got his disability. That took 24 months and he finally got it with back pay. But by that time my roommates fell into debt for a short period. Making bad business deals. So they borrowed some money from him until they sold one of their houses. But they had been clothing, feeding, gas money daily, truck repairs, anything he needed in the mean time. And when they borrowed it they paid him back. Long story short he is still here. And once again the guys are getting low on money. He gets his 2000 every month and goes and gambles it away. Never offers nothing for staying here. Well a friend of his told me that he has been spending all his money trying to get some from this chick who is using him and when his money is gone she dogs him out. Then he comes back broke and starts throwing a fit because he needs gas to go do something. Basically getting loud and rude to the point i ask the guys for gas to get him out of here. I want him out but I am afraid what he might do if we kick him out. The guys make less then him a month put together. this has got to end. Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted June 13, 2019 Share Posted June 13, 2019 I guess you have two choices.1. Tell him he has to leave, or 2. allow him to stay and take advantage of every one else. Does one of the brothers own the place or are you all renting it? If you're renting you all could let the lease run out and all of you have to move. The three of you could move into a place together and just not include him. Lots of trouble to do that, but may be the best solution if you're fearful of what he'd do if you ask him to leave. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shooktodeath Posted June 14, 2019 Author Share Posted June 14, 2019 they own the house. Link to post Share on other sites
Flame Aura Posted June 14, 2019 Share Posted June 14, 2019 Why is he staying for free??? Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 15, 2019 Share Posted June 15, 2019 Just remind him it was a temporary situation. Get the guys and you to sit down with him at the same time so he knows he can't play one against the other. Give him a firm deadline to find his own place and be sure he has a paycheck to get one with between now and then, so maybe July 15th or August 1st. Just remind him it was temporary. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted June 15, 2019 Share Posted June 15, 2019 Do you want him to leave because he isn't contributing enough financially or because you have found out he is chatting up another woman? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shooktodeath Posted June 20, 2019 Author Share Posted June 20, 2019 involved anymore. but I do share my room and bed with him. I don't care what he does. But when he gives his money to other women at the casino, it pisses me off because he should be giving it to the guys Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shooktodeath Posted June 20, 2019 Author Share Posted June 20, 2019 Why is he staying for free??? Because he didnt have money when he first came but now he gets 2000 a month. and saves nothing to move out Link to post Share on other sites
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