Usy Posted June 15, 2019 Share Posted June 15, 2019 My ex and I broke up around 5 years ago, we stayed in touch after and she kept being close to me but then a year after the break up I seen her with someone else and confronted her at which point she said she moved on, this broke my heart so I stopped speaking to her although I didn’t delete her off my social media. Another year after that we slowly started to speak again, then I worked out that the other guy cheated on her which is probably why she started being nice to me again, we stayed in touch and she started to get close to me again and even apologised for the way she left, I asked her if there’s any hope for us but she said no, I was really confused cos I didn’t know why she was being close to me, so at that point I told her I can’t handle this anymore and that we need to lose contact so I can move on, we wished each other the best and I deleted her off all my social media and that was when we lost touch around 2 years ago. In the meantime I have had some success in my life without her as I have managed to graduate and get a well paid job and also recently treated myself to a new car. But I’ve never moved on since her as I think about her all the time and I hadn’t heard from her since then, but 3 weeks ago she started following me on Social media, I followed her back but she didnt message me or anything for 3 days although I could see that she has been active, so I deleted her but kinda regreted it after. A part of me wants to add her back but I have my doubts because I don’t want her to break my heart again but at the same time I still miss her, I’m so confused. I’m not sure if she feels anything. Did I do the right thing or would it be weird if I added her back? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 15, 2019 Share Posted June 15, 2019 What's the point of adding her to your social media again? You are not going to reconcile. You are not even the same people you were when you broke up. If you want to add her to increase your friend count or out of nostalgia, due to your shared history, OK, fine. But I think you keep hoping this link will lead to reconciliation. It won't & you will never be able to move forward, build a real life & a new relationship until you fully let go of her. Sorry. Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted June 15, 2019 Share Posted June 15, 2019 I’m so confused. I’m not sure if she feels anything. Did I do the right thing or would it be weird if I added her back? Her actions over a long period of time tells you there isn't anything there. All you're doing is living in denial and hopium. You're just gonna stay where you are unless you wake up to reality Link to post Share on other sites
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