jdalton35 Posted June 17, 2019 Share Posted June 17, 2019 Hey loveshack i'm very confused please help. there is a woman at work that i'm extremely interested in. She has friend zoned me via text but we have gone out after work numerous times. She and I both like to gamble so we usually go to a casino after work. Now I'm not an idiot when she runs out of money I usually give her some more to play with and when I do she kisses me sometimes it's just a peck sometimes it's a very passionate french kiss no matter if it's $5 or $20. She knows that I am totally into her. Now I know she probably kissing me because i'm giving her money to play with, but the last time we went out she directed this sexual comment at me without any provocation "how often do you jerk off" caught me totally by surprise and off guard. So my question is does she have any sexual interest in me or is she just jerking me around no pun intended this is driving me nuts please help any advice would help! Link to post Share on other sites
Blind-Sided Posted June 17, 2019 Share Posted June 17, 2019 Unfortunately... there is only one person who knows... that's her. Since you give her money... she may thing getting a rise out of you will get her more. Also, since the relationship seems to be based on money, try asking her out to do things that don't have to do with gambling, and see if she is still interested. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 17, 2019 Share Posted June 17, 2019 If she friend-zoned you via text you are friendzoned. If she is French kissing you when you feed her gambling habit you must consider that she may be an addict who will do anything to get that fix, including act sexually when she's high on alcohol & the buzz of adrenaline. Translation: She's kiss anybody who gave her $$ & kept the party going. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
40somethingGuy Posted June 17, 2019 Share Posted June 17, 2019 She's a gambling addict who will kiss anyone that feeds it. She knows you want her so she gladly uses you to help feed her addiction. She is using you as a chump for herself. And you likely are pathetic in her mind but will gladly take what you give her. Plus, this is not the kind of woman anyone wants to settle with. She's a disaster. Plenty of hot women are not like this and wouldn't use you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
caveman621 Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 What are you looking for with her? Just sex? Or a relationship? You might be able to get the first, although not under great circumstances. But I would doubt the second. You are being used. Are you OK with using her? This doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. And especially since she works with you, that makes it even more complicated. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 If she's friendzoned you, then she's just kissing for money, basically, like a sex worker. Why would you go along with this? Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted June 19, 2019 Share Posted June 19, 2019 I have plenty of experience with gamblers and indeed am partial to the occasional bet myself,(I could tell you a story or two, lol) I understand where you are coming from, gamblers are good company and women gamblers do bring that bit of extra excitement, Ill just caution though by nature gamblers can be manipulative and they can lead a man down a dangerous path if he is not disciplined himself , it is almost certain her interest is more of a friendly banter and extracting money from you nature, so it depends what you want really, if your happy that it will be a bit of short term fun as Caveman says, well why not, but yes avoid getting attached at all costs, you will be left with a broken heart and broken bank balance. Link to post Share on other sites
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