Tagalz Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Hey! You might have seen my thread alot on these forums... mainly about dating and friendship but I just want to read your opinion on this one. I’m 23 year old and through my life I’ve experienced alot which shaped me as the person I am today. This is not my whole life story but a part of it. I would write in hours if I were to tell my life story. I’ve also met a lot of different people. In my case I would say that I’m more reserved as a person not to mistaken that I’m shutting down all social acitivites. The reason why I’m reserved is because through my life I’ve met alot of bad people and douchbags so If someone wants to be friends with me they have to earn it I can tell you that yes I do go to meetups, bars and parties to get to know people and once I know them well I can have a better picture what that person is like. Of course how they behave towards me have so much to say. With that said we come back to my point. If I know them as a bad person, or if my feelings say that «this person I don’t like» then I cut the contact. It seems like I’m blaming every bad person I’ve met but keep in mind that I’m aware that it is my fault as well every opinion is welcomed! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted June 18, 2019 Share Posted June 18, 2019 Seems fair enough. I can relate to this as well. I'm a very positive person and choose to not let bad or painful experiences jade me or make me hard. At the same time, I would be a fool not to learn from those experience and if that means I don't associate with some or am quick to dismiss others because my instincts tell me to run, then so be it. No need to apologize for any of it. We need to protect ourselves in the end. You just need to make sure you continue to remain open enough to let the sun shine in. Because as many 'bad' people there are in the world and as many bad experiences we go through, there are plenty of beautiful ones too. And you definitely don't want to miss out on those. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tagalz Posted June 18, 2019 Author Share Posted June 18, 2019 Seems fair enough. I can relate to this as well. I'm a very positive person and choose to not let bad or painful experiences jade me or make me hard. At the same time, I would be a fool not to learn from those experience and if that means I don't associate with some or am quick to dismiss others because my instincts tell me to run, then so be it. No need to apologize for any of it. We need to protect ourselves in the end. You just need to make sure you continue to remain open enough to let the sun shine in. Because as many 'bad' people there are in the world and as many bad experiences we go through, there are plenty of beautiful ones too. And you definitely don't want to miss out on those. That desvered a like from me! Nuff said xD 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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