HumanMachine Posted June 30, 2019 Share Posted June 30, 2019 Me, my best friend and his girlfriend were chilling yesterday, we were talking about people who are always the victim. My best friend's girlfriend (I'd class her as a friend) said "I've still got your ex on Facebook and she's always posting about being the victim", I quite abruptly said please stop talking, I don't want I know. Since then my head has been all over the place, I have had absolutely zero knowledge of her since we stopped speaking 6 months ago. I dreamt about her last night and I haven't stopped thinking about her today. This is a girl who completely destroyed my mental health, ruined my finances and very nearly caused irreparable damage to my life. She also cheated on me numerous times. I've been filled with hate and curiosity since yesterday. I know I'll be fine in a few days but jeez is it tough hearing about her. I just needed to get that off my chest. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted June 30, 2019 Share Posted June 30, 2019 You will be OK. It's always jarring to hear about someone no longer in your life. I have an old friend like that. We had a falling out in 2015 & haven't spoken since but because we have known each other since 1974, we have a lot of people in common. Whenever I see her photo on FB (she's otherwise blocked) or someone mentions her it freaks me out. Go back to reviewing the facts about all the damage she caused. Repeat after me: Thank God she's not in my life anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted June 30, 2019 Share Posted June 30, 2019 Since she put you through so much, I think I'd not mind hearing she thinks she's a victim and not doing the best, honestly. It just dredged it all up for you, but it will be okay. You did right telling her not to talk about her, that you don't want to know. Link to post Share on other sites
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