Ex is now on tinder.

[crazyguy123]

So it kinda ticked me off a bit when my friend told me he saw my ex on Tinder. It bothers me a lot. Close to the end of the relationship, I was already getting distant because she was so clingy and manipulative.

 

Things she did to me:

 

She wanted everything to be her way and her way only.

 

She ditched me on my birthday when I was out with my mom and couldnt respond to my text.

 

She told me she would never accept my career if I decided to travel the world for weeks at a time.

 

I would never have an opinion if I wanted to come over or not when we went out.

 

Get upset if I didn't want to go shopping with her when and sleep even when I have work late night.

 

Gave me attitude when I was at the gym with my friend and would go out for lunch after.

 

Asked for all her gifts that she bought me to be returned after the break up.

 

That was a small amount of everything that happen between her and I. Now, i'm upset because i heard she's on tinder. Is that natural?

[Cersei]

I think it's pretty normal to be upset about it. But when you get upset just look at the list you provided us with.

 

She is better off being someone from Tinder's problem, not yours.

[CautiouslyOptimistic]

That was a small amount of everything that happen between her and I. Now, i'm upset because i heard she's on tinder. Is that natural?

 

 

Yeah. Doesn't make a lot of sense, but I think it's natural/common to feel that way.

[d0nnivain]

There's an old pop song from the 80s that I think sums up your feelings: I Can't Get Over You Getting Over Me.

Look at it this way: she's somebody else's problem now.

[elaine567]

Sounds like you weren't the guy for her, hence the disagreements and then the dumping.

It happens.

She is now looking for someone who is a better fit for her, which is what dating is really all about.

You need to do the same.

[Maddie82]

Christ, good riddance to her i say. You dodged a bullet with that one. Let her be someone else's problem.