Grisha Posted July 5, 2019 Share Posted July 5, 2019 (edited) My gf and I broke up shortly after her ayahuasca retreat. She came back extremely distant and basically told me we weren’t meant for each other. (She’s extremely spiritual, hippie like.) I let her go and told her to follow what makes her happy. Literally within days she would contact me every few days and after about 4 months we got back together. The second time around was MUCH more serious and I felt a lot more love from her. The first time around we saw each other once a week (if that) for a good 8 months. The second time around she’d call me daily and I’d spend 6/7 days a week with her. 5 days ago she came back from her ayahuasca trip and immediately became distant. She spent all her time at her mom’s for the past 5 days. I’ve only seen her once for an hour since she got back. She called me daily to talk and check up on me, but today we had the convo. I brought up how she seems distant and I got her to open up. She basically feels that her and I connect very well in many ways and she loves me BUT we don’t have a spiritual connection and she really wants that from her partner. She didn’t break up with me and I could feel a lot of uncertainty in her words but she’s so cold again because of this ayahuasca medicine. She said aya helped her detach from me and be able to look at things from a deeper level.. It’s really hard on me because it doesn't make sense. She has all these feelings and live for me but because she has become very spiritual she wants someone to have that same lifestyle. We’re still together at the moment but it’s already killing me. I’m not sure how this will play out, but I hope for the best for both of us. Anybody know what it’s like after taking aya? Edited July 5, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 5, 2019 Share Posted July 5, 2019 OP, based on your other threads, this girl was never that stable to begin with. She has bounced around in your life before and dumped you. Now here you are again. It's time to concede that she is not girlfriend material for you. For many reasons. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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