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What do women like nowadays?

 

I run/own a dining meetup where we go to nicer restaurants in the metro Detroit area. My attendees are 75% women.

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I’m not failing at life, I refuse to. That’s why I came here for advice. I have decided to go on meetups for networking and are thinking about creating my own group on meetup app
You have the create a meetup group around a subject matter that is going to attract a large number of people in order to keep it alive. You have to promote capable members to Assistant Organizers, and Event Hosts so that they can come up with more events to keep the group thriving.

 

If the group is too narrow in it's focus and doesn't have enough variety of events on its calendar it will just die out, or never get going to start with. It is almost like trying to a get a business or a Club off the ground.

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A meetup up about football will be fun and you make new friends and a new friend network. Be sure and put on your Meetup website that people are welcome to bring guests, and hopefully some will show up with women.

 

You can make it all about having some informal games as well as going to sports bars and watching games and just being social in general. And there are women at sports bars.

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In other words OP be a completely different person to what you are now in the hope that women will like that version long enough that the accept the version of yourself that you really are. Its about projecting things which are not true but attractive to women nonetheless. The programme is simple really be as fake as possible, as macho as possible oh and make sure you behave, walk and speak like other men, be interested in everything other men are interested in because hey women love a conformist, its the most attractive thing ever, it fulfils their need to fit in with their friends.
One thing I've got from these dating tips is women love attention and entertainment. Hell they themselves might be as boring as crap, but if you want to date one, feed their attention or they'll find someone who does.
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I think that's actually a really good idea. I don't necessarily think that creating your own football group will solve all your dating problems, but it's a step in the right direction. You'll get out and at least meet some new people. Use it as a stepping stone to expand your social circle further. Keep tweaking your approach and eventually you'll meet someone who you may consider dating.

 

 

Hey Snowboy! Sorry for the late answer and I don’t know if you would see this but if you do that’s good!

 

Yes exactly what I was thinking. Taking a small step. Even if it’s going to be more male’s than female I still have the chance to get to know them better and who knows? It might lead us to go out to nightclubs or even just be a friend group (:

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I run/own a dining meetup where we go to nicer restaurants in the metro Detroit area. My attendees are 75% women.

 

How did you go trough? Did you just have a meeting with the owner and he agreed? Tell me more

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Tagalz as a Scandinavian man, I can effectively promise you that if you came to meet the local ladies in the deep South, you would have people almost lining up to date you just by speaking. You'll have to meet people more frequently than what you are doing and ponder if you are giving off the right impression. There is such a need for men to make women "feel good and feel right" about being around men that if you can't make her laugh, you effectively can't get in her romantic zone. So double check if you are doing that most basic thing, and following with escalation. If you aren't doing it consistently, why not?

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Hey!

 

This is a small update to my last thread about creating a soccer meetup. Admins can put this together on my last thread if you want.

 

I went to facebook and joined a group called «new in Oslo» where people posts arrangements and other activites.

 

I posted there asking if there is any interests among those in the group wanting to play soccer and it was 60 people total!

 

So yeah I will go to the meetup app and create the soccer meetup soon! I’m on vacation and I also have to lend the field so I need to talk to the owner (:

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And yes alot of them is male. I would say 55 people are males and the rest is female (:

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How old are you, Tagalz? I'm sure I'm a little older than you.

 

I’m 23 (: how old are you?

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I’m 23 (: how old are you?

 

38. And you're too young to think like that.

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The majority of the population are "boring" to someone.

 

 

Azathoth, if you're awake, doesn't that mean we're all blinked out of even existing? :confused:

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Define Boring.

 

To me Boring is not wanting to do anything. Watch TV and have small talk that does not get your nogin ticking.

 

Boring to me means you can't talk about anything at all.

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And yes alot of them is male. I would say 55 people are males and the rest is female (:

 

Find a community recreational soccer league that have men and women on the same team.

 

Try to join different teams periodically.

 

Because after a while you'll see the same people on the same team, and some aren't single.

 

Anybody heard of a singles soccer league or team? Where the folks bond over soccer, but knows everyone is single and looking.

 

The leagues I joined weren't geared toward singles, but you can kind of tell people were looking. Sadly, I don't look like Beckham or Cristiano Ronaldo.

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Find a community recreational soccer league that have men and women...

 

Who the crap plays soccer over the age of 12? :lmao:

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