Kath121 Posted July 6, 2019 Share Posted July 6, 2019 This is just weird and haven’t a clue what to do :-/ Iv never been in this type situation before so not sure what to do - He ended things and His blocked me twice & unblocked me twice now on WhatsApp I’m scared to message him to say what is this about Iv also had his mates adding me all over social media :-/ As I blocked him on social media when he decided to end things as I didn’t want him seeing what I was up to I did message one of his mates as I recognised one and said I’m sorry but as were no longer dating I can’t let his mates on here I hope you understand and extremely gutted what happened as it came from nowhere take care. It’s been a month now since he didn’t want me anymore. What on Earth is going on with this :-/ my friends are saying it’s very immature & his getting his mates to check on you and he clearly misses you. But if he misses me why hasn’t he text or called me saying hey let’s meet for a chat. Iv wanted to meet for a chat for ages to sort things out. I didn’t want any of these mind games ? Help!! Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 6, 2019 Share Posted July 6, 2019 Tell us more about your relationship with him, OP. How long were you together, and why did he break up with you? How was your relationship while you were still together? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kath121 Posted July 6, 2019 Author Share Posted July 6, 2019 Tell us more about your relationship with him, OP. How long were you together, and why did he break up with you? How was your relationship while you were still together? Our relationship was really good then one day he became extremely depressed and got some awful news then from there he wouldn't text call or anything - I gave him space and also some reassurance id be there for him - I even went and posted him a birthday gift to cheer him up - and he blanked me for days - so I just got upset and one day I said youre a rude bastard and he said were over and that was it - the blocking started, friends adding me ect its been a month now of this lark and don't know what it all means and what I should do - as I really miss the guy - but these mind games are very weird & something iv never experienced with a guy iv dated before and don't know how to approach it his just unblocked me on WhatsApp again - but Im scared to text him - don't know what to say ect and why he keeps doing it and why his mates keep trying to add me too - does he want attention or something - im feeling so confused Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 6, 2019 Share Posted July 6, 2019 If he dumped you over because he was rude and you called him out on it then why are you still checking on him? His friends probably added you because now they want to get to know you. Do not contact him as that would be seen as chasing which is a turn off. Stop watching to see if you are blocked or unblocked and move on until he comes apologizing and begs you back. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 He's immature. You dodged a bullet. His post break up behavior proves both of those truths. You block him. Don't be friends with his mates. Put him in your rear view mirror & get on with your life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Kath121 Posted July 7, 2019 Author Share Posted July 7, 2019 Iv blocked all his friends the ones that I know know about me as I don't really understand why they keep trying to add me I did message 1 like I explained as I kinda knew him - but he is very immature thinking about it & all I said was im so sorry I cant allow you on here as I don't really see the point in it as me and your friend are no longer dating - Its such a shame this happened as it came outta nowhere - I hope you understand & take care he red the message then I decided to block him also Weirdly as soon as I sent that ( this was last week ) my ex he unblocked me on WhatsApp - he hasn't text me or anything on WhatsApp which I don't understand the point in that really. Im way too scared to reach out as scared im gonna be rejected and blocked again Im really hoping he reaches out and apologises to me This is extremely weird behaviour and ending things like that is just so weird Im hoping no contact works and he does at least apologise Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted July 7, 2019 Share Posted July 7, 2019 then one day he became extremely depressed and got some awful news then from there he wouldn't text call or anything - I gave him space and also some reassurance id be there for him - I even went and posted him a birthday gift to cheer him up - and he blanked me for days - so I just got upset and one day I said What was this awful news? Link to post Share on other sites
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