schlumpy Posted July 16, 2019 Share Posted July 16, 2019 I have always told my wife that there is a lot to be said for a plain blank wall. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 Good! So then you agree that he has every right to have as much a say in decorating as she does. Thank you! No, I said nothing of the sort. But if you want to believe that's what I said, then I'm happy that you're happy, and let's move on 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SpiceCat Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 No, I said nothing of the sort. But if you want to believe that's what I said, then I'm happy that you're happy, and let's move on So when someone moves in somewhere, it's not their home? What is it then? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted July 17, 2019 Share Posted July 17, 2019 So when someone moves in somewhere, it's not their home? What is it then? Again, the OP, who hasn't been back since the day she started the thread, needs to decide if he's effectively renting a room from her or if they're partners. Two different approaches... Mr. Lucky 2 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted July 18, 2019 Share Posted July 18, 2019 So when someone moves in somewhere, it's not their home? What is it then? I said "let's move on" because I don't believe this debate is helping the OP. You believe that when someone moves into their partner's home, it instantly becomes their joint home. I believe that when someone moves into their partner's home, it becomes a joint home over time. Let's just leave it there rather than pointlessly squabbling which isn't helping the OP at all. As Mr Lucky says, the OP who is hopefully still reading despite not contributing, has heard both sides and now needs to decide what to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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