Mr. Lucky Posted July 10, 2019 Share Posted July 10, 2019 Our son is afraid of angering her - because he knows how she is. You're not doing a very good job of convincing the peanut gallery here that reconciliation would be a great idea... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Maddie82 Posted July 10, 2019 Share Posted July 10, 2019 I have to agree that pursuing anything again with your ex wife is not a good idea. There were too many issues in the past to just brush aside. You said yourself that she does not like being alone so the fact that reached out to you AFTER her second marriage broke down just tells me that she is just trying to latch back on to you for some security. I agree with others that if you get back with her then it's highly likely that all the problems you once had will all come back to the surface at some point and you'll end up back to where you were before in an unhappy marriage . It's OK to be civil and friends for the sake of your son but anything more than that is not a good idea. Link to post Share on other sites
Peacemaker1 Posted July 10, 2019 Share Posted July 10, 2019 Thanks for taking the time to explain, JAdams. It is clearer to me now. In that case, she should try to dissolve it even at this early stage, not for you, but for herself and for your son. Forget about the stigma, wasting her life by prolonging it will pile up more regretful consequences in the long run. She should consider counseling with a pastor from a church nearby. I got advice from a pastor and these people have amazing things to say, especially in the areas of morality. It is worth a try. Link to post Share on other sites
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