qwerty1234 Posted September 26, 2005 Share Posted September 26, 2005 we all know that sometimes girls dont always mean what they say. to get to the point, a girl told her friends that she would "consider me"(going out). i have not asked her out yet. so i dont know what really will happen. so my question really is. When a girl tells her friends she will consider someone, what does that really mean? i was told that if she said she would consider it to my face, then it basicly means a no. Link to post Share on other sites
konfuzd Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 The only way you're really going to know is if you just go for it. What's the worst that can happen? she "considers it", then decides she's not interested... Don't take it too seriously. "I'd consider it" means, "it's never really crossed my mind, but I'm not repulsed by him"... All you need to do is give her a reason why she should go out with you. If word got back to you, obviously you have some mutual friends, why not arrange to get a group of you toghether to take the pressure off, then make sure to get some one on one time with her, and from there ask her to give you a call sometime, and maybe the two of you can go out. Go get 'er tiger! Link to post Share on other sites
fusangite Posted October 2, 2005 Share Posted October 2, 2005 Maybe if we had been there to monitor her body language, tone of voice and conversational context we might hazard a guess about how she felt about the idea of dating you at the time she said it. I think her language suggests that she was luke warm to the idea but she might have warmed up since then. Link to post Share on other sites
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