Heatemyheart89 Posted July 22, 2019 Share Posted July 22, 2019 I am really struggling to get over someone I dated recently. I met him through online dating,it was intense. I was attracted to him and he seemed into me. Seemed to want to do a lot of things together. It ended when he told me he didn't want a rship with me. Thing is this guy wasn't even that nice to me, he criticised my dating choices , clothes and even said he was better looking than me. He would text and receive calls from his 'cousins wife' and also I saw he had called a restaurant, I believe to book a table with his ex who he was in contact with regularly. He made me feel like I wasn't good enough and I feel pretty anxious now about dating. I also feel annoyed as I really liked this guy at the start. I have had no luck OLD and thought it could be something. How can I forget this ? I feel like a fool as we wern't even really together ( despite him saying it could happen). Link to post Share on other sites
Beendaredonedat Posted July 22, 2019 Share Posted July 22, 2019 How can you forget this? By looking at it realistically, remembering the red flags so you don't ignore them next time, by looking at why you didn't leave his arse wherever you were when he told you he was better looking than you (who in their right mind says that kind of thing to anyone?) Dear, you dodged a bullet. He's a self-absorbed dweeb who was a bully to you. Don't continue on with someone past date one who is so callous and rude. Take back your personal power from him and don't allow him to knock your self worth down. He's got mental issues. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted July 22, 2019 Share Posted July 22, 2019 I am really struggling to get over someone I dated recently. I met him through online dating,it was intense. I was attracted to him and he seemed into me. Seemed to want to do a lot of things together. It ended when he told me he didn't want a rship with me. Thing is this guy wasn't even that nice to me, he criticised my dating choices , clothes and even said he was better looking than me. He would text and receive calls from his 'cousins wife' and also I saw he had called a restaurant, I believe to book a table with his ex who he was in contact with regularly. He made me feel like I wasn't good enough and I feel pretty anxious now about dating. I also feel annoyed as I really liked this guy at the start. I have had no luck OLD and thought it could be something. How can I forget this ? I feel like a fool as we wern't even really together ( despite him saying it could happen). After he told you he was better looking than you you should have been the one to break up with him. Why would you want a relationship with someone who talks to you that way? If he made you anxious, criticized your clothes, dating choices and looks what is it about him that makes you want him? Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 22, 2019 Share Posted July 22, 2019 you learned a good life lesson Link to post Share on other sites
Trail Blazer Posted July 23, 2019 Share Posted July 23, 2019 You dodged a bullet. That guy sounds like an emotional vampire. Keep looking, hopefully the next guy you connect with is decent. Link to post Share on other sites
The Outlaw Posted July 23, 2019 Share Posted July 23, 2019 He's a useless douchebag. And you dodged a major bullet. Some idiots will say and do anything to cater to their own ego and to feel better about themselves. Forget this guy, you can do better than him. Link to post Share on other sites
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