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Wished me a happy birthday after 3 months on NC


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Yeah I know I am. I'm still in love with her. I can't help but overthink it. I don't think I'm unique in that regard. I want this to mean she still has feelings for me and wants to make sure the door is open for future communication.

 

But maybe, she is just being friendly and wants to make sure we're at least on a cordial note, to assuage her guilt and validate her dinged ego for not being chased and begged or bothered with for 3 months.

 

Again, I'll see what the future holds.

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I replied 3 hours later at 10PM "Hope you had a good one too."

 

 

Silly nonsensical game playing. You think the future would have been significantly altered if you typed those 7 words immediately after receiving her text vs waiting 180 minutes? Do you think it comes across as if you're being cool, or something? Because, it doesn't.

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Silly nonsensical game playing. You think the future would have been significantly altered if you typed those 7 words immediately after receiving her text vs waiting 180 minutes? Do you think it comes across as if you're being cool, or something? Because, it doesn't.

 

I think replying immediately would have communicated that I was eager for a conversation. Not to mention she took 9 hours to respond to my message, or that I was at the gym when she sent it, or that she isn't entitled to prompt and timely communication from me just yet.

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