Confused

[feisty red]

My boyfriend really confuses me. We don't live together but I'm there all the time. I can't remember when I was home last. He refers to his house as home. I already have half my clothes and other stuff there. I have my clothes in his closet and make-up, etc. in drawers. He seems not to mind considering he hasn't said anything to me about it. It seems he gives hints as to me moving in (at least I think that's what it is). He's always saying how he needs a new bed and loves mine. He asks me to get the mail and I also do my share around the house without him asking me to. I wash clothes, dishes, cook, water the plants and clean. He's in a financial bind and yet he doesn't ask for money to help pay for water or electricity. If I offer to help, he declines. He says if his job moves to another city, we can rent out the house and I can transfer to that city. If I say I want to go home, he doesn't want me to leave. He gets upset at the thought of me being away from him. What does all of this mean? I'm so confused...please help.

 

Thanks

[sparkle]

I think it means that he wants you to move in with him, or that he really enjoys your company.

 

So what exactly are you so confused about? Whether you want to move in or not? What is he confusing you about? From what you've described, I don't see any mixed signals from him.