sanjose Posted July 31, 2019 Share Posted July 31, 2019 Hi, So I met a wonderful lady and we really seem to hit it off and get along great. We've been seeing each other for a few weeks. We've been intimate but a couple of things have happened and I'm confused (or over thinking). Anyway, a couple of times when we were intimate, I "took care of her" (trying not to sound crass) and she started on me...but...fell asleep. Twice. I understand she could be very tired but I feel like a POS. Let alone what it's done to my self esteem:eek:. I really don't know what to make of this. I'm trying to be understanding but maybe she's just not that into me? I thought of discussing this with her but I feel any future contact will feel like an obligation...which I don't want. We've "taken care of each other" before so it's not like it hasn't happened at all. Should I let it go or approach it in conversation? I really like her and she tells me she really likes me. Appreciate any advice. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 31, 2019 Share Posted July 31, 2019 are you a boy or a girl? Link to post Share on other sites
Author sanjose Posted July 31, 2019 Author Share Posted July 31, 2019 well said Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted July 31, 2019 Share Posted July 31, 2019 Next time switch it up and she takes care of you first. I know, you wonder why you didn't think of that yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted August 1, 2019 Share Posted August 1, 2019 are you a boy or a girl? well said I don’t think he was making a comment, seems he was looking for clarification... Mr. Lucky Link to post Share on other sites
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