anika99 Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 You wasted 10 YEARS on a man that was mainly concerned with getting his ego fed? Why would you do that to yourself? Be glad it’s over!! If you read the OPs prior threads you will see that she was dating and getting into relationships with other men the whole time so it's not like she was sitting at home crying her heart out over this guy. On the other hand I noticed that the OP has been saying it's over with the MM the whole time she had been posting on LS. She usually starts her threads about this guy saying she hasn't been in contact with him for a couple of years only to come back a couple of years later to say the same thing. OP I think you and the MM both quite enjoy the drama he brings to your lives. Why wouldn't he get in touch? It's what he always does and you always take the bait. Link to post Share on other sites
justwhoiam Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Weird! It sounds like a 'look how successful I am now, free and with an attractive woman' - don't you wish you were with me? I had a similar feeling. I thought he was like: see what you have missed? This could have been you... I feel sorrier for the wife he had for 37 years, who had no career because he wanted her submissive and at home. By the situation you described, you don't know his family dynamics. You only know what he told you. Quite likely, the wife doesn't feel like going to work, but most men wouldn't admit to working like dogs to have their wives twiddling their thumbs for the rest of their lives. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 I had a similar feeling. I thought he was like: see what you have missed? This could have been you... By the situation you described, you don't know his family dynamics. You only know what he told you. Quite likely, the wife doesn't feel like going to work, but most men wouldn't admit to working like dogs to have their wives twiddling their thumbs for the rest of their lives. Actually cheating married men love to complain about their wives and how hard done by they are. It's one of their tools to reel in the other woman. Haven't you read any other threads in this section. Hundreds of po po men being abused and taken advantage of by their wives. What else can these poor guys do other than cheat and lie? Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 me, the last being sending porn photos to my work. I think he is a narcissist and he has been discarded. I will protect myself and my work and my family. If I choose to play hardball with this creep, I will do so. Have you contacted local authorities about this person? If you haven't, why not? Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted September 21, 2019 Share Posted September 21, 2019 Have you contacted local authorities about this person? If you haven't, why not? I agree with this - be PROACTIVE instead of reacting to his crappy crumbs. Make him have consequences too - when he is served his wife will know he’s been contacting you - so then he will stop! Link to post Share on other sites
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