Honest_Interest Posted March 24, 2020 Share Posted March 24, 2020 Hey Beaver, If your still out there how are you doing? I was going to throw in my 2c worth and say check for all the messenger programs....( Facebook, Snapchat whatsapp etc.... they are better for hiding and chatting than straight SMS ( Using a few Musicman Basses myself)..... Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted March 24, 2020 Share Posted March 24, 2020 What did the dna results show? Link to post Share on other sites
Honest_Interest Posted March 24, 2020 Share Posted March 24, 2020 Hope everythings ok its been a 5 months now😟 1 Link to post Share on other sites
colingrant Posted March 26, 2020 Share Posted March 26, 2020 Quote He said 'kinda still in love with you'. She replied 'honestly, I feel the same way. How is it that we had our chance and basically blew, then ended up like this?'. Another she said something like 'you are like my drug. I can go so long not seeing you and I'm fine. But when I do I dont want to see you leave' . Others somewhat like that. Not sure what you're looking for, but the above text in bold is as significant a Nd incriminating as any evidence you'll find. You have all you need right here to determine the course of your marriage moving forward. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beaver0273 Posted September 27, 2021 Author Share Posted September 27, 2021 Good news everyone! Kids are mine. House is mine. Truck, camper, and cabin are mine. Decided what happened was too much and filed. I even got primary custody! It's weird how happy I've been since the divorce was finalized. She still is adamant nothing ever happened. Funny thing, I ran into him at a work event a few weeks ago. Told him how he messed my life up because he was desperate for my business. He insisted nothing physical happened but one time and wouldn't say anything else. All in all, I feel great and happy. Never knew I loved boating until I bought one after the divorce. She always wanted one! I could have lived out the next 15 years married to her for my kid's sake, but I'm glad I didn't. They can see even at their young ages how happy I am alone now. 13 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Just a Guy Posted September 28, 2021 Share Posted September 28, 2021 Hi Beaver, great news! Sometimes the gods smile on those who really deserve it! Have a fun life! Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 Posted September 28, 2021 Share Posted September 28, 2021 13 hours ago, Beaver0273 said: It's weird how happy I've been since the divorce was finalized. I could have lived out the next 15 years married to her for my kid's sake, but I'm glad I didn't. They can see even at their young ages how happy I am alone now. Great happy ending. It's liberating to end bad situations even if it's an uphill climb to get to the other side. Hopefully your story will inspire those too cowardly to leave unfaithful marriages. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Robert2016 Posted October 1, 2021 Share Posted October 1, 2021 Congrats on getting to live the best version of your life! Link to post Share on other sites
usa1ah Posted October 2, 2021 Share Posted October 2, 2021 This is great!! Congratulations man!! Link to post Share on other sites
pepperbird2 Posted October 2, 2021 Share Posted October 2, 2021 On 9/27/2021 at 6:45 PM, Beaver0273 said: Good news everyone! Kids are mine. House is mine. Truck, camper, and cabin are mine. Decided what happened was too much and filed. I even got primary custody! It's weird how happy I've been since the divorce was finalized. She still is adamant nothing ever happened. Funny thing, I ran into him at a work event a few weeks ago. Told him how he messed my life up because he was desperate for my business. He insisted nothing physical happened but one time and wouldn't say anything else. All in all, I feel great and happy. Never knew I loved boating until I bought one after the divorce. She always wanted one! I could have lived out the next 15 years married to her for my kid's sake, but I'm glad I didn't. They can see even at their young ages how happy I am alone now. Good for you. You ave given your kids an object lesson in that they shouldn't be afraid to stand up for themselves and to not put up with a bad relationship. Here's to the first day of the rest of your life :) 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Buffer Posted October 20, 2021 Share Posted October 20, 2021 Great news and good luck in the future. Remember kids are #1 always. one day at a time 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/4/2019 at 10:27 AM, Turning point said: You'll learn soon enough what kind of fabric your wife is really made of. Based on what he posted he already should know this. Not a pretty picture. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/4/2019 at 12:32 PM, elaine567 said: Is this a hill to die on? Trully, yes it is. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/5/2019 at 7:37 AM, Turning point said: He's always hated this guy, so his insecurity is obvious. And given what is already known by him, he had and haves quite enough good reasons for Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/6/2019 at 10:47 PM, Turning point said: That question wreaks of insecurity. Her reaction will be that she is repulsed. I agree that it´s not a good question. Not because of any kind on inner "insecurity", bs. But cos to accept cake eating is worst than to be left for another. The point and all the point is if she feels repulsion and disgust for the other man (that indifference is best is also bs). Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/7/2019 at 1:26 PM, elaine567 said: On 8/7/2019 at 5:26 PM, Beaver0273 said: Got into her phone Saturday night. Saw some texts. A few really stood out. He said 'kinda still in love with you'. She replied 'honestly, I feel the same way. How is it that we had our chance and basically blew, then ended up like this?'. Another she said something like 'you are like my drug. I can go so long not seeing you and I'm fine. But when I do I dont want to see you leave' . Others somewhat like that. Maybe because it is no big deal... She KNOWS what happened, we don't... Your answer Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 (edited) On 8/7/2019 at 5:51 PM, PRW said: ....but that she may be as much the victim here. Ohhhhhhhhh my! An example of what is best known as wayward thinking. Edited November 5, 2021 by Uruktopi Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/7/2019 at 6:19 PM, Beaver0273 said: Not arguing with you, but why stay if I'm plan B and he told her how he felt? Because being plan B is not mainly being left for another, but being the comfortable support od cake eating while staying. Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 On 8/29/2019 at 11:44 AM, Turning point said: She chose to marry and start a family with the OP, is still married to the OP, and whatever contact with the ex provided her - it ended with no intervention by the OP. In other words - she STILL chose the OP. And you are saying that choosing him for the role of betrayed husband is a prize he should be grateful for????? Link to post Share on other sites
Uruktopi Posted November 5, 2021 Share Posted November 5, 2021 Congratulations! QED Link to post Share on other sites
Tempocontour Posted December 4, 2021 Share Posted December 4, 2021 Your wife agreed to a divorce, gave you everything even tho she said nothing happened? Link to post Share on other sites
jdesey Posted December 13, 2021 Share Posted December 13, 2021 reminds me of my ex fiance.... she never let go of her ex husband. I am sorry, but this one belongs to another man. Link to post Share on other sites
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