Lionabelle Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 It was a red juice drink (similar to fruit punch) and he threw it at me. Wasn't this rude? I'm still having him to pay for my ruined, brand new shirt. What happened is that someone snitched on me and told him about my cheating with a co-worker. It's true but there was no intercourse involved though. He confronted me, I admitted to it and then started laughing in his face. I was laughing so hard that I nearly choke. That's when he threw his drink at me. I told him that he was freaking crazy and that he still owns me for my shirt. Link to post Share on other sites
ARAMCOMAN Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 Your kidding right? If your ex was me you'd of had at least three drinks thrown on you & one on top of your head. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lionabelle Posted August 2, 2019 Author Share Posted August 2, 2019 Your kidding right? If your ex was me you'd of had at least three drinks thrown on you & one on top of your head.The relationship was going south and more than likely things would have ended (not as soon as it did but eventually) at some point. Cheating is wrong but it's not like I committed a crime. Link to post Share on other sites
Normm Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 Why don't you tye die the shirt? There are some really cool patterns. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lionabelle Posted August 2, 2019 Author Share Posted August 2, 2019 Why don't you tye die the shirt? There are some really cool patterns.I suppose that's sarcasm right there. Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 In my opinion he was no more rude than you were by laughing in his face. Poor guy. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lionabelle Posted August 2, 2019 Author Share Posted August 2, 2019 In my opinion he was no more rude than you were by laughing in his face. Poor guy.I laughed because there was no point in hiding and lying anymore. I was already confronted and felt no regret/remorse about it. What else could I have done? Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 I laughed because there was no point in hiding and lying anymore. I was already confronted and felt no regret/remorse about it. What else could I have done? Shown some consideration for his feelings perhaps? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 you're both extremely immature 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 Throwing a drink on someone is wrong... but then, so is cheating. If you want to discuss the lesser of two evils my dear... well, let’s just say, your not going to win the argument. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lionabelle Posted August 2, 2019 Author Share Posted August 2, 2019 Shown some consideration for his feelings perhaps?yeah perhaps I should have He can still easily find another gf. He has been in several relationships in the past, prior to meeting me so it won't be hard at all. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 I was already confronted and felt no regret/remorse about it. What else could I have done? Dare I say it, but you are lucky all he did was toss a drink. Hmm... what else could you have done - how about apologize? Have you not developed empathy? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Lionabelle Posted August 2, 2019 Author Share Posted August 2, 2019 Dare I say it, but you are lucky all he did was toss a drink. Hmm... what else could you have done - how about apologize? Have you not developed empathy?The last time I apologized it was when my former teachers at school would force me to. It was fake all the times and I never felt bad back then. Even my parents once made me apologize and in the end, I kept wondering why if I didn't feel bad at all. Link to post Share on other sites
MelodyRye Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 (edited) I think the OP has a much bigger problem than a ruined shirt. She has no morals nor conscience. Well I hope this isn't true but that's what I'm getting base on her very last reply. Seems like she doesn't understand it. If so, that's a serious problem. If that's the case, there is no cure for that. Edited August 2, 2019 by MelodyRye .......... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Flame Aura Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 I laughed because there was no point in hiding and lying anymore. I was already confronted and felt no regret/remorse about it. What else could I have done? Try growing up, your actions are very immature. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mark clemson Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 I laughed because there was no point in hiding and lying anymore. I was already confronted and felt no regret/remorse about it. What else could I have done? You might consider doing some internet research on the "sociopathy spectrum". I say this because by your own description you appear to lack empathy. You probably aren't too worried about it, but for many the problems their own behaviors create eventually come back to bite them in the *ss very hard. So, my suggestion is intended to help you. Good luck (and I mean that sincerely). 1 Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 You might consider doing some internet research on the "sociopathy spectrum". I say this because by your own description you appear to lack empathy. You probably aren't too worried about it, but for many the problems their own behaviors create eventually come back to bite them in the *ss very hard. So, my suggestion is intended to help you. Good luck (and I mean that sincerely). 'Came here to post something similar. Sociopathy was the first thing that came to mind reading the thread. The relationship was going south and more than likely things would have ended (not as soon as it did but eventually) at some point. So why didn't you break up with him first? Cheating is wrong but it's not like I committed a crime. Throwing a drink at you is wrong, but it's not like he committed a crime. So why are you so upset about it? yeah perhaps I should have He can still easily find another gf. And you could easily get a new shirt. So why is he at fault while you're absolved of all wrongdoing? OP, you seem upset that someone did something bad to you, but unable to fathom that someone else could be upset that you did something bad to them. Why is that? Link to post Share on other sites
FMW Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 The last time I apologized it was when my former teachers at school would force me to. It was fake all the times and I never felt bad back then. Even my parents once made me apologize and in the end, I kept wondering why if I didn't feel bad at all. This post makes me feel OP knows she's got a problem. I don't think she's here to find out if the ex was rude, I think she wants some clues about her own issues. Or she's bored. Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 Quality human right here. /Sarcasm OP: I fear you won't make it very far in life with attitudes like that. Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 yeah perhaps I should have He can still easily find another gf. He has been in several relationships in the past, prior to meeting me so it won't be hard at all. He's more than likely on to a new girl who is more mature by now. Good you two are split up. Link to post Share on other sites
Redhead14 Posted August 2, 2019 Share Posted August 2, 2019 Dating is really for grown ups, not 12 year olds. It's too bad he wasted a perfectly good drink though. Link to post Share on other sites
major_merrick Posted August 3, 2019 Share Posted August 3, 2019 Cheating tends to deserve retribution. You got off lightly. Adultery was a capital offense in Bible times, and some people still believe in it. Link to post Share on other sites
Beendaredonedat Posted August 3, 2019 Share Posted August 3, 2019 Cheating is wrong but it's not like I committed a crime. Throwing a drink on you is wrong but it's not like he committed a crime. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted August 3, 2019 Share Posted August 3, 2019 You got what you deserved. And you also deserve to pay for the dry cleaning. I echo the thoughts of those who suggest you should read up a bit on psycopathy - you may find it explains a few things. Link to post Share on other sites
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