Flame Aura Posted August 6, 2019 Share Posted August 6, 2019 Just ask him 'Hey is this you in this video?' What is the problem exactly? Did not need a topic about this.... Link to post Share on other sites
Rayce Posted August 7, 2019 Share Posted August 7, 2019 I agree.. just ask him. Maybe it is him and he doesn't even know. Maybe it's revenge porn. Link to post Share on other sites
anika99 Posted August 7, 2019 Share Posted August 7, 2019 Well, that’s certainly an optimistic thought. What do you think the chances are that he made a porn video and it “accidentally” got onto a porn site? Seriously, what do you think the chances are that a porn video that you are not aware of could “accidentally” turn up on a porn site? The two of you have some talking to do... Keep us posted. Exactly. If this was a homemade video and one of the two people involved didn't know that they were being recorded and/or being broadcast on the internet, it would most likely be the girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Rayce Posted August 7, 2019 Share Posted August 7, 2019 Exactly. If this was a homemade video and one of the two people involved didn't know that they were being recorded and/or being broadcast on the internet, it would most likely be the girl. but it could be the guy too... just saying he might not know Link to post Share on other sites
Rockdad Posted August 7, 2019 Share Posted August 7, 2019 I hear you Burning same here. Then I met ME in person some years ago when we hosted an exchange group from another country. He looked like me, same mannerism with the same warped sense of humor. A fun loving and nice guy but after a period of time I found it annoying. I'd hate to have to put up with me on a daily. I feel sorry for my wife. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted August 7, 2019 Share Posted August 7, 2019 Listen, this clearly bothers you or at least is occupying some serious space in your psyche which means you need to mention it and see where it lands. If you're in a relationship and he knows you watch porn so stumbling upon it doesn't seem out of the norm, its not a ridiculous question to ask. You claim to have this great relationship where you are both open and transparent...so what's the problem? It's all in your approach. Just be sure not to accuse him before he's had a chance to respond. If it's not him, you might end up with a good laugh. If it is, it warrants further conversation about things he may not have been open to telling you about in the beginning. In either case, you should be able to tell a lot from how he responds if he's telling the truth or not. I guess you just need to be ready for the worst case scenario. Never ask a question you don't want the answer to. Get straight about why you need to know and what the answer would mean to you if it is indeed him. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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