sugar-rae Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 My getting a job will not help my bf's situation... I really think 2million..would make a lot of people entertain the notion. I think mostly guys would say yes though. Again i said "no" but yes i entertained the notion of a easy life and being able to share that with my bf. You should be grateful you have a man that'll work. Period. Neither one of you should be griping about that at all. As for an easy life, we would all like one. You definitely need to do some growing up, ALOT MORE. You would probably be better off just playing the lottery. Atleast you wouldn't run the risks of STDs. Do you actually read your posts BEFORE you punch the send button, cause some of this stuff you're writing here is odd to say the least. If you're that desperate for any easier life, there are jobs like stripping, illegal prostitution. Which come to think of it, if you HAD accepted Ole Wierdo's proposition, you'd be committing a crime, unbeknownst to the law. You aren't Demi Moore (who wants to be anyway! ) and Ole Wierdo ain't Robert Redford. Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Sorry to hear about you husband...maybe your working can help him.. Again I do not live with my boyfriend. He does not support me either... You may pick on me *smile* One thing I have learned in life is not to allow someone else to steal my peace. I will remain non-confrontational because it is not in me to be aggressive and argumentative when someone is insulting me. I am also "non-judgmental". *wink* Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Sorry to hear about you husband...maybe your working can help him.. Again I do not live with my boyfriend. He does not support me either... You may pick on me *smile* One thing I have learned in life is not to allow someone else to steal my peace. I will remain non-confrontational because it is not in me to be aggressive and argumentative when someone is insulting me. I am also "non-judgmental". *wink* We're not picking on you Juliet. Simply voicing our opinion that you seem immature, and are not able to concisely voice your opinion, or thoughts. You seem either very young, or uneducated. Your posts have left me very confused... I can't not tell what your problem is, but to me it seems you thought people would answer the question more if you posted it as 'real' instead of just asking a hypothetical question.... Strange. Although your last post is the most well written of all... did someone assist you?! Link to post Share on other sites
sugar-rae Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Sorry to hear about you husband...maybe your working can help him.. Again I do not live with my boyfriend. He does not support me either... You may pick on me *smile* One thing I have learned in life is not to allow someone else to steal my peace. I will remain non-confrontational because it is not in me to be aggressive and argumentative when someone is insulting me. I am also "non-judgmental". *wink* I don't need to work. He makes enough for the both of us. I'm happy to depend on him to bring home the bacon. God's blessed us thus far, also with the 4 beautiful kids we have. He's also blessed me with the freedom of choice, work or not work. You can't insult a mother and wife who ACTUALLY likes being a Homemaker. *wink* If you had such peace what are you doing on here getting advice? Shouldn't you just pray about it, report the moron to the proper authorities and move on? My advice, keep Ole Wierdo blocked and move on. I am opinionated. When you come on these forums expect opinions, whether you like them or not. That's life. Well, this is my last post on this. I have things to do. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Again, the proposition really happened. No, I did not post it as legit to generate "hypothetical opinions" The suitor could very well be lying. No, noone helped me with my post. I just don't put much of an effort in when I respond because I feel like I am repeating myself over and over... I know I sound naive. It is not related to age or education. It is attributed to unbelievable events often happening in my life. I used to raise an eyebrow. Now I think "you just never know." I have been shocked over and over. I never indicated I believed what this guy said whole heartedly. I am at a 60/40 ( 60% doubt that is.) The truth maybe revealed shortly. Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 these are not topic issues I posted for debate... 1, whether I am a liar 2, If I am uneducated 3, whether I am a minor 4, opinions on my scruples, morals and fundamental values 5, a troll looking for attention Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Being skeptical does not equate maturity eithe. It does not convey a higher eduacation level as well. I would rather be naive than to be cynical anyday. Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Attention Walmart Shoppers -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Being skeptical does not equate maturity either. It does not convey a higher education level as well. I would rather be naive than to be cynical anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Posts: 75 Quote: We're not picking on you Juliet. Simply voicing our opinion that you seem immature, and are not able to (concisely voice your opinion) or thoughts. You seem either very young, or uneducated. Ok so you think you can ascertain someone's education level from 3 or 4 posts? I would be ambivalent to make a statement like that with such little information to go on. *smile* Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 This is the same girl who has posted: She is living off a settlement from her exhusband and doesn't want to remarry or live with anyone because she will lose it. He's cheated on every gf prior to her (but not her) Had never worked prior to their divorce- never driven a car. If you search her posts you will see that she's virtually like a child- she's been treated like one for years and certainly acts like one. That's what she's comfortable with. She's over 30 so she posted so it's not her age. Everyone would like to be able to sit around and not have to earn a living but it's just not reality for most people. Nor is it reality to not to have to work until you can find something you "love". Most people just need to put food on the table, a roof over their kids head, and gas in their tanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Mz. Pixie Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 A troll looking for attention?? For all we know, you are a troll looking for attention. You just got here. Also- FYI- when you post on these forums you're going to get opinions so to say you didn't want opinions is just hilarious to me because that's what this place is for. If you don't want to read what's written then don't come back here to post or read. Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 That part is true.. but it does not mean I am inept, incompetent, immature or not intelligent. Ok I maybe naive because I have lived an extremely sheltered life. I never had to make any real decisions except for what i wanted for dinner..and sometimes that choice was made for me too. If I look at the world with child like eyes maybe that is refreshing..and a good thing. Would I be better off to constantly feel like a lamb wandering into a lions den?" "The meek shall inherit the earth" Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 I thought maybe this forum would help me:( Link to post Share on other sites
Lil Honey Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 these are not topic issues I posted for debate... 1, whether I am a liar People tend to question it because they don't want to waste their time. 2, If I am uneducated 3, whether I am a minor Well, age and education have a lot to do with how a person sees the world. Further, a person who is older and/or has an education has had experience with the people who make up the world we live in. Life can be an education in itself and it seemed (until Mz Pixie pointed things out) that yours wasn't long enough. There are many times that I've asked someone their age, because it has a lot to do with how I answer and if I understand their point of view. And the reason I continued to ask was because you didn't answer the question, which makes it look like you are avoiding it, which makes you seem . . . questionable. 4, opinions on my scruples, morals and fundamental values Again, what you do or don't answer and how you answer influences another person's perception. 5, a troll looking for attention I won't necessarily go as far as calling you a troll, but I do think you are looking for attention. You want people to see your photo and offered to email to people you don't even know. And if I remember correctly, you put up a website about the guy in question. Both things are statements saying, "If you don't believe me, here's proof." Unfortunately for someone who does that, the attempt to show me "proof" is an action I see as that person trying to persuade me (or quick-selling me) to believe something that my gut tells me not to. Besides, I rarely believe anything I read online . . . And lastly, I have a REAL hard time swallowing a post where someone writes, "Look at my picture. Look how beautiful I am." I feel like saying, "Ohhhhh puleeeeeze. Get over yourself." For some people, there is no conceit in their family, cuz he/she got it all. LMAO Link to post Share on other sites
JadeStar Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 That part is true.. but it does not mean I am inept, incompetent, immature or not intelligent. Ok I maybe naive because I have lived an extremely sheltered life. I never had to make any real decisions except for what i wanted for dinner..and sometimes that choice was made for me too. If I look at the world with child like eyes maybe that is refreshing..and a good thing. Would I be better off to constantly feel like a lamb wandering into a lions den?" "The meek shall inherit the earth" I lived a sheltered life too hun and I was the only child. HOWEVER, even though that may be the case, I don't respond to unwanted emails or IMs about someone saying they have 2 million dollars will you sleep with me? Most people have has some kind issues in their life, be it they were sheltered, abused, poor, uneducated etc etc, but people can't use that excuse as a crutch but for so long. Just because you were "sheltered" doesn't mean you might not have enough common sense to respond to what could have been and still might be a dangerous situation. I understand you said you told the guy no and that he was blocked from emails and Ims etc, but for you to have responded to him in the first place was just plain ridiculas. Then you go and make a post about it, and don't like what people have to say. I say if you stop responding to your own post then maybe others will to, unless its what you want:confused: Jade Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Juliet is not a troll. I exchange emails with her (to our private email addresses) and I claim that she is just a woman that was hoping that someone would be so impressed by her qualities that he would spend a fortune for one night with her. No need to insult her. We've all been gullible and naive in our lives, but we don't like remembering it, do we? Regarding the cheating boyfriend, he cheated on others, not yet on her as much as she knows. There are women here who still live with husbands who cheated on them! And we don't think they are stupid trolls. Link to post Share on other sites
CHAZ87 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 But what about the men who live with women who cheated on them. Are they trolls? Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 I never even offered to send a pic of me out to people. I was surprised 2 woman wanted to see it! I only sent it to one person though. Only "record producer"..she seemed the most persistent about it. She has also been nice to me and I added her to my address book. I never said I was hot.. I think I am avg. I am not conceited..in fact I am the opposite. Link to post Share on other sites
Outcast Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Juliet - people are not supposed to be rude or abusive here. If this is getting a bit much, report the posts to the mods. People, maybe you should back off. Every now and then, LS is like a pack of wandering hyenas looking to strike someone who's down. If you doubt a poster and think it's a troll, report it to the mods and let them take care of it. If they don't remove the posts, then it's not a troll. Some people can be highly educated and/or middle aged or older and still be very naive. Case in point would be most of the Infidelity forum. Link to post Share on other sites
Lil Honey Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 I apologize for misunderstanding (or not remembering correctly) the facts about the photo. The topic about being hot/conceited was something that I've read before (from others) and it just BUGS me and I used it as an example. I'm sorry if I wasn't clear. Being sheltered from the world simply means that you can learn about it through observation. Reading about and watching how other people treat each other can be an education in itself. And if you really have been sheltered, one of your best defenses is to be skeptical and ask, "What is in it for the other person? What is their motivation?" For example, I would have questioned why Record Producer was persistent about a photo. (And I'm only using this as an example. I'm not saying anything about RP's character.) You see, what some guy thinks is beautiful might not be beautiful to RP or vise versa. You could send her a picture that isn't you. And she could say, "D@mn you're ugly," when you probably aren't and that would be only her opinion. So, either way, it's irrelevant. Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Outcast....might need to borough your user name if this keeps up:( Record Producer..thankyou for being open minded. "rehabs for quitters" Link to post Share on other sites
Lil Honey Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 People are not supposed to be rude or abusive here. People, maybe you should back off. Answers to my simple questions may have steered my tone in a different direction . . . Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet2 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 I would say that is pretty impressive! Sex, Scandal and $CASH seems to grab everyone's attention. Still have not heard back from the Woodward's website. If they write back I will post what is said about this "Thomas Woodward"..lol Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 II would have questioned why Record Producer was persistent about a photo. (And I'm only using this as an example. I'm not saying anything about RP's character.) Because I wanted to see her pic and hit on her, of course! :lmao: You see, what some guy thinks is beautiful might not be beautiful to RP or vise versa. You could send her a picture that isn't you. And she could say, "D@mn you're ugly," when you probably aren't and that would be only her opinion. So, either way, it's irrelevant. I am objective enough to conclude whether someone is attractive. Besides, I was just curious. I don't see why she would send me someone else's pic. Link to post Share on other sites
sugar-rae Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 There are women here who still live with husbands who cheated on them! And we don't think they are stupid trolls. Well, I sometimes look like one in the morning, but that's beside the point! I think Juliet should forget Pervert Woodward (and others like him)and be happy with her beau no matter how little time she gets to spend with him. IMO Link to post Share on other sites
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