Can My Sister"s Boyfriend Damage My Penis ?

[darill]

I have two sisters, One is 17 Years old and Other sister is 21 years old and she has a boyfriend,My Mom always wants me to follow her instructions and obey to my sisters as well, she asks me to do all the house works and even to help my sisters, my sisters takes advantage of my situation and try to bully me, they even asks me iron their clothes, I feel irritated and if I don't do as they want, My mom call my Sister's boyfriend at home and asks him to punish me by pulling and yanking my penis,

 

she asks him not to leave me, even if I starts sobbing or crying, once she got my penis yanked 20 times, I felt like I would die in pain or he would damage my penis permanently he leaves me I feel pain throughout the day, How do I deal with this situation? Can he damage my penis permanently? or Can I not be able to get hard in future? I am want to fix this issue with my both sisters peacefully, I want to sit and talk with them but they don't care, what shall i do to convince them ?

Edited August 4, 2019 by darill

[preraph]

I am quite serious here. You need to call the police and tell them about this if it is true. It is abuse and molestation. And you tell them your mother is whose idea was. I'm serious this is not acceptable. I don't care what you think you've done wrong or what they've got you convinced you've done wrong, if what you're saying is true you need to call the police right now.

[darill]

I am quite serious here. You need to call the police and tell them about this if it is true. It is abuse and molestation. And you tell them your mother is whose idea was. I'm serious this is not acceptable. I don't care what you think you've done wrong or what they've got you convinced you've done wrong, if what you're saying is true you need to call the police right now.

 

 

I can not call the police because of some reasons,I want to fix this issue peacefully, My biggest problem is my oldest sister who is 21 years old, she is stubborn and short tempered, she wants things get done by her ways, i do house chores but all the time i can't do her works, if i refuse then she complains to Mom and she calls her boyfriend to punish me, he yanks my penis badly and this makes me break down totally and I give up fighting back.

 

i want my 17 years old sister to intervene and help me, if she want then she can talk to my 21 years old sister and even to her boyfriend about this but i don't know how to convince her ?

[basil67]

Sorry, there will be no peaceful resolution. Go to the police for help.

[Kitty Tantrum]

Trying to fix it peacefully would involve turning back the clock to a time when the situation was actually peaceful (if ever). As you are having sexual violence inflicted upon you (on what sounds like a regular basis, at that), the time for peace as unequivocally and irrevocably passed.

 

You can either get whatever help is available from the authorities NOW, or you can wait it out until the violence escalates to the point where someone IS seriously injured. Whether that's you (because their "punishments" will likely get worse and worse) or them (because you finally get pushed over the edge and retaliate), nobody can really say. But you're not going to make your situation better by trying to reason or negotiate with people who see it as acceptable to inflict sexual harm as a matter of routine domestic "punishment."

 

Even if she's not complicit in the abuse, why would you count on your 17 year old sister to help you if she hasn't done so already of her own volition? How can you put that on HER shoulders? That's not her job. The best thing she could do for you would be to call the police and/or whatever other authority has the power/jurisdiction to help in the area you live. If she hasn't done that, thinking that she'll muster up the nerve to confront the older sister and boyfriend on her own is just some kinda fantasy. It will never happen. It SHOULD never happen, because she's not in any position of power to be ABLE to help. Most likely scenario is that she'll end up "punished" in some way as well.

[darill]

Trying to fix it peacefully would involve turning back the clock to a time when the situation was actually peaceful (if ever). As you are having sexual violence inflicted upon you (on what sounds like a regular basis, at that), the time for peace as unequivocally and irrevocably passed.

 

You can either get whatever help is available from the authorities NOW, or you can wait it out until the violence escalates to the point where someone IS seriously injured. Whether that's you (because their "punishments" will likely get worse and worse) or them (because you finally get pushed over the edge and retaliate), nobody can really say. But you're not going to make your situation better by trying to reason or negotiate with people who see it as acceptable to inflict sexual harm as a matter of routine domestic "punishment."

 

Even if she's not complicit in the abuse, why would you count on your 17 year old sister to help you if she hasn't done so already of her own volition? How can you put that on HER shoulders? That's not her job. The best thing she could do for you would be to call the police and/or whatever other authority has the power/jurisdiction to help in the area you live. If she hasn't done that, thinking that she'll muster up the nerve to confront the older sister and boyfriend on her own is just some kinda fantasy. It will never happen. It SHOULD never happen, because she's not in any position of power to be ABLE to help. Most likely scenario is that she'll end up "punished" in some way as well.

 

 

I am not saying that my 17 years old sister should Fight with My 21 years old sister or her boy friend, I just want her little support here, if she want she can try to do like a mediator and can intervene between me and My 21 years old sister and her boy friend.

 

I told you it's very hard to bring police in this matter and even if i do most likely it will trouble me too in other ways,I don't want to live in shelter house in a slums, I am from Philippines and here things are not very good at-least around my region, My dad died 9 years ago and Mom run small grocery shop for earning and she took lot's of financially help from My oldest sister's boyfriend and My oldest sister started behaving like a dictator in home, she thinks like she owns the house,

 

However it don't happens daily but it happens once it 3-4 Months but My sister's boyfriend is very rude and harsh Guy, he just wants to keep me Down and don't let me stand up for Myself, he pulls and yanks my penis almost mercilessly to break me and i give up in front them. So i want to talk to everyone but Peacefully, I want My Mom to listen my Points and concerns and My 17 years old sister intervene and Talk to My oldest sister and her boyfriend, I also tried to talk with my oldest sister but she don't listen My arguments, when I try she gets irritated, I am also worried about Health and condition of my penis in the future.

Edited August 4, 2019 by darill