She said it will not get that way, not at the moment anyway

[athletictommyj]

I saw my ex at her house last night, actually she invited me over to watch prison break. I packed overnight stuff but did not bring it in her house. When I got home she called and said I know you didn't want to leave but we can't get that way bc I don't want to lead you the wrong way, and I know that you would have taken it for something else, and I would have. She wants the single life bc she doesnt want to be lonley when I leave for a year and she is only 20 and life the college life or whatever, there are many other reasons too. Should I remain friends, if that is what we even are, I do now that she only invited me over because it was during the week. If she had friends over I know she would not invite me, so I don't know what to do. I don't want to know if she starts seeing other people, even though she said she is not ready for that yet. She said if we are meant to be then we will be and basically for the next year is the maybe stage (of all when I am gone). That sucks. What should I do? Part of me wants to get back with her but I think I am getting over or at least starting to. Any advice?

[fundamental]

If you can't handle her seeing other people or she doesn't want to get back with you or you can't handle a friendship with her, then you might not want to go spend time with her. Doesn't sound like you are ready to accept the "if it's meant to be, it will be" so avoid her for now until you are thinking clearly.

[athletictommyj]

I love spending time with her but I want things back the way they were and I know they will not be, bc she said so, at least not now. So just ignore her calls and texts? Or just pick up and act busy? I want her to see what she is missing and I guess that is the only way I can do it?