schlumpy Posted August 16, 2019 Share Posted August 16, 2019 Yes, there are happy endings but the common thread in those happy endings is two people of like mind and that doesn't exist in your case. But I see you are determined to try. How about bribing friends to talk you up? They could "subtly" bring up how much they miss seeing you two together and what a great a couple you made. Reminisce about the good old times. How happy the two of you were. Write your own script. You could offer them future favors or paid for dinners or concert tickets or just plain cash. Low chance of success but you don't seem particularly worried about that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vladimiir Posted August 17, 2019 Author Share Posted August 17, 2019 *Update Last night i went out with my friends, who are her friends too and found out that i was right, she will invite me to her birthday. @schlumpy Sadly i cannot bribe my friends to do that, they are pretty much double sided, hanging out with me and with her separately. So they try to not take sides. Link to post Share on other sites
zivo Posted August 17, 2019 Share Posted August 17, 2019 I agree with most people on here, definitely dont do that... just the vibe I get from reading your messages is that you are trying wayy too hard and coming off a bit creepy. Even if she agrees to get back with you she will have you eating from her hand and doing everything she wants. She will control you and control the relationship. Not worth it. Tell her straight up if she wants to date you or not to do it, if not then go your separate way. Link to post Share on other sites
assertives Posted August 17, 2019 Share Posted August 17, 2019 ... Tell her straight up if she wants to date you or not to do it, if not then go your separate way. Last week, she told me she didn't love me anymore, that i don't love her and i only love to stability of the relationship. I left her a couple of days and i reached out, trying to fix things, to explain that i loved her and it's not just stability. She told me that she was happy being alone, for the first time in 2 years she was happy. She has already given him a clear answer though. She doesn't love him anymore and is happy being alone and hasn't been happy for a long long time. OP is refusing to accept it's over and it sounds like he is now rewriting and creating his own narrative of their story. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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