mthpp Posted August 10, 2019 Share Posted August 10, 2019 Hi all, This is what I really suck. You meet a girl at an event, gathering etc.... You strike up a 20 minute conversation and get her number at the end. Then what? What do I message her? If my aim is to date her, should I ask her to meetup for a drink? I met this girl last night and talked to her about 20-30 minutes. I still don't know much about her at all, and vice versa. I just think in these situations asking for a date is straight away is too much? Would you agree? Many thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
Blind-Sided Posted August 10, 2019 Share Posted August 10, 2019 .................. I just think in these situations asking for a date is straight away is too much? Would you agree? Many thanks! Not at all. If she gave you her number, and you two had a connection... then that is why you use that number, and ask to meet again. I know some people say to wait XXX days... but personally, if it was a good conversation, I would contact her before that spark fades, and say something like... "Hey, I enjoyed talking last night, and wanted to know if you would like to meet for drinks one night this week?" That can be changed to coffee and morning if you get the feel that would be more to her liking. Good luck. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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