Hrgirl915 Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 No matter the circumstance, losing love is difficult. I’m sure he loves you, as you did him. I think the fear of starting over and the shame of a failed relationship can sometimes be too much for a person to overcome. It’s easier to walk away from a person than from commitments. Perhaps once you grieve this sad loss in your life, you will find new interests to fill your void. Your husband may have shortcomings and that can be difficult to accept. But keep in mind no one is perfect and the next could bring about a different problem. For example, he could be an intellectual equal but not provide financial security. Time is all that can ease your sadness but one day you’ll wake up and this will be a distant memory. Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted October 2, 2019 Share Posted October 2, 2019 It seems default is oh he loves you but.....truth is its mostly false. I. A recent study done by Pew research center they found that only 10% of married women progress to sex in affairs while 89% of married men progress to sex in affairs. That stat strongly suggests that the he loves you theory is mostly false. Men and women clearly seek affairs for very different reasons and have very different expectations At the end of the day who loved or didn't love who is irrelevant. Getting hung up on stuff like that only facilitates the Ill fated relationship and keeps one stuck in the what if loop. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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