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It is settled then.

 

I will likely visit an escort sometime in October to lose my virginity.

 

For the month of September, I will workout at the gym more often, do aerobic exercises, anything to get myself into top shape. And if I meet a girl then, then I will cancel my plans to see a prostitute.

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I will likely visit an escort sometime in October to lose my virginity.

 

actually I think you want her to visit you...I think you'll have fun. you should ask for the "girlfriend experience" although I don't know what that is. I think they are extra nice to you (for a surcharge, of course). tip well

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if I meet a girl then, then I will cancel my plans to see a prostitute.

 

 

Just don't tell her that she's the reason you didn't screw a hooker.

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Have u thought about dating a girl that's a little older than u?

26 to 28? Expanding ur dating prospects

I would suggest even higher, 35-50. A "cougar" who is just looking for a younger guy to have a good time with and bet she will teach more than a thing or two.

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Unless somebody is so into looks that it trumps anything else they are looking for a mate which isn’t the best recipe for a relationship to grow

 

There are a ton of people like this. I was married to one for 14 years.

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@5x5 - while I agree your results should be encouraging to shorter guys, I think you may be somewhat exceptional in terms of the "male experience" generally.

 

@GG7 - suggest you please reconsider or look for alternatives to seeing a prostitute if at all possible for you. I think the last thing someone in your situation wants to do is contract an STD or similar.

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I think the last thing someone in your situation wants to do is contract an STD or similar.

 

escorts and call girls almost always make you use a rubber, their livelihood is on the line

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True, but some STDs can be transmitted by oral and condoms are not 100% effective in blocking either pregnancy or transmission. I have had my share break over the years.

 

OP, do you really want to be having intimate relations with a woman who, a half hour earlier, could have been forcing herself to vomit up another guy's sperm (because she can't stand the thought of it being inside her)?

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I have had my share break over the years.

 

maybe you should be using the XL size and not L :laugh:

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OP, another big downside to hookers (if you're from the US): IF you happen to be caught, your name could easily be placed on the National Sex Offender Registry. If that happens, good luck ever getting a decent job again.

 

If you must do this, at least be smart about it and get yourself to Nevada.

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OP, another big downside to hookers (if you're from the US): IF you happen to be caught, your name could easily be placed on the National Sex Offender Registry. If that happens, good luck ever getting a decent job again.

 

If you must do this, at least be smart about it and get yourself to Nevada.

 

or Canada....I can be in Windsor in 45 minutes. Prostitution is decriminalized there.

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OP, another big downside to hookers (if you're from the US): IF you happen to be caught, your name could easily be placed on the National Sex Offender Registry. If that happens, good luck ever getting a decent job again.

 

If you must do this, at least be smart about it and get yourself to Nevada.

 

 

The problem is that I live in the Midwest, nowhere near Nevada or Canada. Nevada is a good 20 hours away so I would have to fly there and get a rental car. The problem is that I’m too young to get a rental car (I’m 24) and just all the crap that comes from flying.

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True, but some STDs can be transmitted by oral and condoms are not 100% effective in blocking either pregnancy or transmission. I have had my share break over the years.

 

OP, do you really want to be having intimate relations with a woman who, a half hour earlier, could have been forcing herself to vomit up another guy's sperm (because she can't stand the thought of it being inside her)?

 

You should look in her mouth for any bleeding or sores. You're paying them. And if you want to be nicer about it, show her your mouth first, though you're probably not going to be kissing. I've seen band guys on tour who pick up strippers flashlight them in their mouths first. You can't be too careful. Remember she could have aids or anything and even if all she has is bleeding gums, you might catch something. Honestly, if I were going to sleep with a sex worker, I wouldn't even let them put their mouth on me. I'd use a condom and just do that.

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maybe you should be using the XL size and not L :laugh:

 

They can come off, too. Especially if the guy is nervous or drunk and loses his erection.

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Just know that law enforcement does spend a certain amount of time monitoring and setting people up on the typical places you go to find hookers. It used to be BackPage, but they've scared everyone off there from busting them. Not sure who it is now, but certainly Craigslist is another well known sex worker trade site. Really, you're better off with a recommendation from someone.

 

To me, that's too much trouble to get your rocks off when you could just do it yourself.

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To me, that's too much trouble to get your rocks off when you could just do it yourself.

 

GG has said he wants to be desired, and I assume hookers often at least pretend to "want" the guy (especially if they are asked to). Desire from another person (fake or not) isn't something he can get with his hand.

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