barfool Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 I guess I'm posting this to just get some general opinions. So there is a guy who I get along with very well but is "attached." At one point in the not so distant past he and I fooled around but stopped short of sex. Now we still flirt and are touchy feely, but nothing more has happened, though I very much want it to. This guy that I like has a friend who is pretty cool and I have hung out with. I know he wants to have sex with me, and that sounds great, but I know that he tells his friend everything and I am worried that would ruin any chance I have with him. So the question is, should I give up on the "attached" guy that I really want and have some adult fun with his buddy? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 It would probably ruin chances with the guy you like so I wouldn't do it. Maybe talk to the attached one and tell him how you feel, maybe he'll become unattached for you, who knows. Link to post Share on other sites
Jayhawks Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 If he likes you it would probably end your "future" chance with him. If he just wants to boink you then it might enflame his passion. How much do you care about his feelings? Link to post Share on other sites
Author barfool Posted September 29, 2005 Author Share Posted September 29, 2005 Of course I care about his feelings, but I'm not in love or anything. I definately don't want him to become unattached for me. That's his own issue. I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm just out to have a good time. I'm going to see the attached guy tonight, so maybe I'll just ask him what my chances are. An opinion from a friend of mine is that I should just do the "grab and kiss," since that's what he did to me to get us started in the first place. Hmmmm.... Link to post Share on other sites
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