Author Tess155 Posted November 7, 2019 Author Share Posted November 7, 2019 OP, I'd agree with other folks here. You're in for trouble down the road based on her attachment to her ex and the BPD, but I guess you already know that. I'm very much in the same place as far as ex-dynamics and toxicity go, and I admit I'm expecting my now-ex-gf to come back and say had to give the ex one more go before moving on. Do you really want to be the one they come back to in that kind of circumstance? Where they basically caved to old tendencies only to realize you're the more stable future? How can you possibly be secure that she won't be sucked in again and bail on you if things get hard, or if her ex makes a strong play for her? Hi, so I’m wondering if your wants to give it another go with you, will you give them that chance, do you still love them?? Yes, everyone’s saying basically the same here and giving me the advice to move on. Of course I know this is risky....I’m taking it slowly and guarding some of my emotions. We have a lovely and strong bond between us, I’m not silly but weighing everything up I feel it’s worth giving her/us this chance. None of us can be sure of the future with someone or ever be complacent. I’m just taking it slow like I said. Link to post Share on other sites
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