stella20 Posted September 3, 2019 Share Posted September 3, 2019 So my ex and I are now on civil terms - we acknowledge if we see one another but nothing beyond that. Recently, a friend of mine saw him eating lunch with the ex he was dating before me. She is also in her forties. My friend ended up unintentionally eavesdropping on their conversation - ex g did most of the talking - hinting about going to SeaWorld, going to a home design show.... and she mentioned possibly doing these things with him. As far as my friend knows, he wasn't really reciprocating / offering much in the convo. This is the same ex-girlfriend that told him she felt insecure / awful about just being only his friend in his life. I'm just curious... why would she want to be back in his life in a closer way if a) he broke up with her after three months of dating and 2) she felt insecure about being his friend? This is the same ex-girlfriend I might have mentioned in a previous thread that asked him for a favor and to buy a plane ticket for her when he and I were still dating. I think this is on my mind because I think he needs to be with someone that doesn't put him up on a pedestal without acknowledging his own faults. Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted September 4, 2019 Share Posted September 4, 2019 Sounds more like she's just looking for someone to spend money on her to me. She sounds like a user. It's unclear but probable she wants to get back with him so he'll do more stuff for her in terms of spending. I mean, who asks an ex to buy them stuff? He is probably still having sex with her and may have never stopped. That's probably his currency in the thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Foxhall Posted September 4, 2019 Share Posted September 4, 2019 Im guilty of dwelling too much on the past myself, but at any rate I will say perhaps just forget about them and start building a new life yourself? Link to post Share on other sites
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