Reunite but as long distance - would it work?

[maestrok]

Am 29, he's 34. Both working professionals.

We were living like 10 minutes away from each other when we were together for half a year. Broke up this January when we had a big argument and just got tired of fighting and stopped talking to each other for a bit which ended up being too long for us to start talking again.

 

So we broke up just like that. I think after 2 months from then, he kind of wanted to get back but by that time, I was due to leave work and move out of the country to the other side of Earth - which he does NOT know (I didn't tell him).

 

I miss him a lot. We were both in love and even wanted to get married for real.

 

I'm thinking of reaching out to him again. It might not work out but I want to try.

 

My main concerns are that:

(1) If we get back together, we have to do LDR and then both to move to a third country for us to reunite. That third country will be where we both would/could move and find job easily. Is this doable you think? Would I be even crazy to even suggest the idea? What would you think if you get an email from me after about 1 year?

(2) We had argument and broke up by not talking to each other. Will we be prone to repeating this? I mean, we would have arguments in the future in our lives, I don't want to break up again then if this means we don't know how to resolve issues between us...

Edited September 3, 2019 by maestrok

[MetallicHue]

I’ve heard that LDRs can be very challenging. If you had such a big fight that you didn’t talk for days, regardless of how much you love each other, how sure are you it won’t happen again? Did you fight a lot when together?

[PRW]

No it isn't going to work. Forget it.

 

LDRs just BARELY work and usually fail most of the time and that is in a healthy relationship which the two of you do not have.