pepperbird Posted November 5, 2019 Share Posted November 5, 2019 just make sure it's for a reason you can live with. That's the problem here. He's so focused on what he wants, what he feels he needs, what he desires that he's lost sight of the fact that it's not just him who has to live with the fallout of his choices. There's a least two other people who are along for the ride, like it or not. Op, you don't sound like a bad guy. You do sound like a guy who just doesn't have it in him to be faithful. I'm not a believer in the nonsense lie that people, somehow solely by the function that they exist,are entitled to "happiness". Happiness is not an entitlement. It something you earn. Right now, you are not earning yours. instead you are asking others to pay the price, and sir, that's just not right. Link to post Share on other sites
pepperbird Posted November 5, 2019 Share Posted November 5, 2019 I I have a feeling that when your baby is born, you're going to have a change of heart. Most men I have met, even those who have cheated on their wives, would consider what the OP is doing to be at the lowest end of the scale. Most men who will step out on their pregnant wife don't stop cheating once their wife has the baby. If anything, it often ramps up. These men feel that they are entitled to their wife's complete and undivided attention 100 percent of the time, and if they don't get it, they feel that's fair reason to cheat. Link to post Share on other sites
HadMeOverABarrel Posted November 12, 2019 Share Posted November 12, 2019 Doesn't the military come down harshly on infidelity? Link to post Share on other sites
Buffer Posted November 18, 2019 Share Posted November 18, 2019 Yes it does in the US military. Link to post Share on other sites
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