curious jane Posted September 28, 2005 Share Posted September 28, 2005 So i have had this on and off thing with a guy for the past 10 years, i can't quite explain what it is.... it started when i was 18 - we have always lived in different countries but every couple of years a paths cross and it is just bliss. We have never had sex with each other we just kiss and enjoy each others presence - i had not seen him in about 4 years and i saw him this May at a festival - the feelings were still all there, we never have really discussed anything we just are i guess. When i was younger i moved to be closer to him, he freaked out and lost contact - but over the years we have stayed in contact and see each other and i just fall all over him. I met a new guy shortly after i saw him, and he is wonderful, although l8tly we have been having some troubles, but i really care about him a lot. My 10 year friend thing contacted me this week - he is coming to my coty and wants to see me. I told my b/f and he knows all about him. It made him very insecure and he said he would not feel comfortable with me seeing him alone. I have cheated on b/fs in the past with this guy, but i am older now and i care about people more and i dont like huting people. In my mind i am trying to figure out how i can see him without my b/f knowing if it is possible. I know i would feel like a bag of **** for being dishonest. I never really know when or where i will see this 10 year man again. I think that just a night with him almost make me consider cheating on my b/f or breaking up with him. I just have never been with anyone that makes me feel like 10 year man has - yet he always keeps me guessing and i get my hopes up.... Hmm sounds like something from a romance novel... IT feels good to be wanted -- but i just did not think it would be so hard, if i was anyone else i would not be contemplating these thoughts... 10 year will be 4 hours away from me until january - then he will be on another continent, but just knowing there could be the possibilty for soemthing in such a little time makes me not know what to do or feel Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 Wow you would be a bag of **** to ask how you can be alone with the 10 year flame behind your boyfriends back ..... You need to let your nice decent boyfriend go . He deserves someone better than you. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 I have cheated on b/fs in the past with this guy, but i am older now and i care about people more and i dont like huting people.. In my mind i am trying to figure out how i can see him without my b/f knowing if it is possible You DO see you're contradicting yourself MAJORLY here don't you. You haven't grown up so I can't help you. Advice are for grown-ups to heed. And I truly feel sorry for your b/f. Link to post Share on other sites
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