Mkrnova Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 Hello a 30 year old male here I just find it hard to find a good women to be with all I want in life is to find someone to be a friend and a lover but it is hard in my area. Most of the good women are taken and the other ones I meet are not what I would go with for more unsafe reasons is it just that I am unlucky or is it ment to be. Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 Hello a 30 year old male here I just find it hard to find a good women to be with all I want in life is to find someone to be a friend and a lover but it is hard in my area. What's the area? Most of the good women are taken and the other ones I meet are not what I would go with for more unsafe reasons What do you think the "good" women are looking for, and why aren't they seeing it in you? is it just that I am unlucky or is it ment to be. Do you really believe your situation is a result of fate? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mkrnova Posted September 6, 2019 Author Share Posted September 6, 2019 I am in North Carolina so it is lovely weather right now but as for the good women part all the women that are good hearted and kind are already in relationship so I am not going to break that up. As for what they see in their partner and not me I don’t know but again not breaking their relationship and not sure if I would call it fate or not just haven’t been lucky is all. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 Just keep looking. They are out there. You do have to be someone flexible in your approach. Nobody is perfect. Happy hunting. You also need to use multiple means to meet somebody. OLD alone will never get it done. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mkrnova Posted September 6, 2019 Author Share Posted September 6, 2019 Just keep looking. They are out there. You do have to be someone flexible in your approach. Nobody is perfect. Happy hunting. You also need to use multiple means to meet somebody. OLD alone will never get it done. Thank you for the encouragement and hope everything is wel for you and everyone else that is on here. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 You are welcome. But what is it that you are doing to meet people? When I was single & looking I made a point to do something at least once per week designed to increase my social circle & give me opportunities to meet people. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mkrnova Posted September 6, 2019 Author Share Posted September 6, 2019 You are welcome. But what is it that you are doing to meet people? When I was single & looking I made a point to do something at least once per week designed to increase my social circle & give me opportunities to meet people. Well not only do I use where I work seeing it is a local store so I meet a lot of people but I try to get out to different places in my area I walk around areas around here or in parks not sure what else to do really sad to say. Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 I am in North Carolina so it is lovely weather right now Ok, are you in a bigger city like Charlotte, or a smaller town? but as for the good women part all the women that are good hearted and kind are already in relationship How could you possibly know this? Have you met every woman in your area? As for what they see in their partner and not me I don’t know but again not breaking their relationship and not sure if I would call it fate or not just haven’t been lucky is all. "Luck" is what happens when preparation meets opportunity. If you live in a place with no or limited opportunity (ex: somewhere not populous), it'll be an uphill battle. What are you doing to try to meet women and what do you think has been preventing you from being successful? Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 I am in North Carolina so it is lovely weather right now Stay safe. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 Well that explains why you are not meeting anybody. You need to be more proactive. Go to singles events Take or teach an adult education class Get involved in a community group -- Elks, Moose, Lions, volunteer fire department, Chamber of Commerce, little league Play on a co-ed sports team Check out niche singles events: I went to one where you could bring your dog. I was planning to go to one where you play golf Tell everyone you know you are open to being fixed up Attend alumni events Volunteer somewhere doing something you are passionate about to meet like-minded people: save animals, fight disease, promote the arts, get political Attend industry events; ask your boss at the store if you can represent the store at the Chamber of commerce, or other networking events to drive more business to the store. The key is putting yourself somewhere that you can be exposed to new people who are also trying to make connections. Walking the park or around town people want to be left alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Mysterio Posted September 6, 2019 Share Posted September 6, 2019 I guess keep interacting with women. Don't put yourself in isolation. I think Yoga class/making sure at least twice a week your with a lot of people and interact with them. I just personally think that it will happen, when your not really trying, but at least you meet new people. Just make sure your well dressed and groomed. Link to post Share on other sites
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