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Nope, it really doesn't. You act civil but you go your own way.

 

 

So I think the situation is pretty clear right now. I hooked up with the same girl from last weekend and she hooked up with some random guy. I realized that she isn’t for when I went to a party and she showed up she didn’t say hello to me but introduced herself to the friends that were standing around me. The girl from last week and I started talking again and then I just left with her. After she left my room I went to the party again and she was in some guys room with the door locked. I guess what do I expect. It hurts. It is also my fault but I think this night showed that we both aren’t made for each other!

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So I think the situation is pretty clear right now. I hooked up with the same girl from last weekend and she hooked up with some random guy. I realized that she isn’t for when I went to a party and she showed up she didn’t say hello to me but introduced herself to the friends that were standing around me. The girl from last week and I started talking again and then I just left with her. After she left my room I went to the party again and she was in some guys room with the door locked. I guess what do I expect. It hurts. It is also my fault but I think this night showed that we both aren’t made for each other!

 

Let me just add something... But I talked to her on the phone for a second and she was out of her mind drunk. Like I didn't understand her. And furthermore, she always told me she would. Never hook up with anyone and that that is not her. And if you think about her behavior the past weeks, I feel like there is something more Going on which isn't me or school or something but something bigger... Anyways, I won't try to find that out but it's just a feeling I have.

 

//Edit for the post before: the friends I went to the party with were all girls. And she saw me leaving with the girl I hooked up with before.

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Update on the situation: I haven't texted her and actually just expected it to be done. Well after a few days she texted me and said "I heard you scored a goal! Good job! You saved the team" A few messages later she wanted to study with me and after studying she invited me over. I was at her place until late at night everyday the last 5 days.

I don't think I should let us become that close again but it feels good and it's fun. We will see how it goes. Again, multiple people already asked if we were dating.

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