eddpad Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 My ex and I broke up about two months ago but I've recently learned, even though she broke up with me to be on her own and not be in a relationship she has been with this guy for a little over a month. So she waited about 2 and half months to be with this guy. Just so you know, I'm 22 and she is 19. We went out for 4 years. She's definitely going through her bad girl/ wild stage, which would seem why she is seeing this guy since he is that kind of guy with tatoos and goes out partying and all the other stuff that goes along with that. Before this she was a nice conservative girl. The part that makes me scratch my head is her telling him how much she loves him and all. This sounds like a rebound to me but I just wanted to see what everyone else had to say. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted September 29, 2005 Share Posted September 29, 2005 his sounds like a rebound to me but I just wanted to see what everyone else had to say. What it is is of no concern to you .. She can date anybody she choses and can do anything she wants all without your consent and she can do it on any timetable she choses. You need to think about moving on .. I know it hurts .. But she is with someone else. It might be or might not be a rebound.. It all depends on where she is on the grieving for the old relationship.. Sometimes people grieve during the relationship and can move on quickly without the next relationship being a rebound. If it is a rebound it doesn't mean it won't last... I have had rebounds lasted 3 months and some that have lasted 4 years.. Sorry but go out with someone else and try to forget about getting her back Link to post Share on other sites
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