S2B Posted September 26, 2019 Share Posted September 26, 2019 Has a dna test been done to prove to your husband that the child is his? It’s possible he thinks the child is biologically another man’s child. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted September 26, 2019 Share Posted September 26, 2019 Pretty sure someone here said my husband wishes I was dead. BlindsidedTwice, asking for feedback here is like judging Olympic figure skating. You throw out the high and low posts and pay attention to the consensus in the middle. Ask me how I know ... Mr. Lucky 2 Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted September 26, 2019 Share Posted September 26, 2019 Has a dna test been done to prove to your husband that the child is his? It’s possible he thinks the child is biologically another man’s child. How does she bring that one up? Link to post Share on other sites
spiderowl Posted September 26, 2019 Share Posted September 26, 2019 How does she bring that one up? If the police can get DNA tests done on hair and from toothbrushes, then maybe she doesn't need to. She get can a test done quietly. Link to post Share on other sites
BaileyB Posted September 27, 2019 Share Posted September 27, 2019 If the police can get DNA tests done on hair and from toothbrushes, then maybe she doesn't need to. She get can a test done quietly. She has said that she has no doubt about the child’s paternity. She has not disclosed the affair to her husband. Not saying he doesn’t suspect that his wife has been distant, or even that she is cheating... but correct me if I’m wrong OP - much of this discussion is pure conjecture. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author BlindsidedTwice Posted September 27, 2019 Author Share Posted September 27, 2019 Bailey and Elaine are correct. My son was born spring 2015. My affair started summer 2016. It turned physical fall 2017. It ended summer 2019. I had one long affair with one man. Thanks again to all for the help earlier in this thread. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Maddie82 Posted September 27, 2019 Share Posted September 27, 2019 What do you proposed to do about your son? Are you just going to continue to walk away and let your husband abuse the small boy? Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted September 28, 2019 Share Posted September 28, 2019 So the affair JUST ended? Ya know - if your husband has anger issues it’s not right that he takes it out on ANY child! Have you sat him down and discussed his anger? Have you offered ideas on giving him some peace of mind? What have you done to repair the damage you’ve caused? Ask your H - does he have a way of never raising his voice to the child again? Have you told him that if he doesn’t change - then you will divorce him? Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts